It's great that you see the value understanding men and their masculine perspective so that you don't need to make the same mistakes over and over.
I'm sure you are already aware that men and women are built very differently. Sometimes the masculine world can be completely counterintuitive to us women, and we need to understand this.
Because all misunderstandings and miscommunications with men come from a lack of understanding the basics of how the masculine and feminine energies differ.
From the masculine perspective, love, sex and relationships look very different to how they look from the feminine perspective.
Once you have this deep understanding of the masculine world, you will be able to easily understand a man's communication, and get through to him on his level.
...Not to mention have him appreciate and respect you for understanding him as a man.
By the way, we've written so many blog posts about this topic, so in case you haven't read them… here are just a few.
A Letter to Men: How to Understand Women & Why Your Relationships Fail
Why smart women seek to appreciate & understand men FIRST
The One Perfect Thing to Say When a Man Says He Needs “Space”
The 5 Things Every Woman Ought to Know About Men
How to Find a Good Man & Have a Lasting Relationship