Yes, I want to know whether I'm dating an emotionally mature man so that I don't waste my time.

Great question to ask!

It isn't always easy to figure out "who" a man is deep down inside when externally they may seem like they have things figured out.

Sometimes you meet smooth talkers who seem to be saying all the right things but nothing ever falls into place.

"Does this man really want a deeply committed relationship?"

"Does he have the maturity and are able to take on the responsibility of a real relationship?"

These are the questions you will be able to answer once you have a deeper understanding of men, love, sex and relationships.  

(And understanding of which specific questions to ask in order to take a peek deeper into any man's psyche.)

There's a whole section in our Commitment Control 2 program where we talk about commitment testing, but you might not be at that stage of the relationship yet…

So rather, I want you to focus on the 2 things that are the most important in any relationship… emotional attraction and emotional connection.

With enough of these 2 magical ingredients, you can inspire any non-committal, emotionally immature man to take on the responsibility of a real relationship with a real woman.

But in order to cultivate and deepen the feeling of emotional attraction and emotional connection with a man, you need to deeply understand how these work first. Below are the programs we suggest you look into for your situation.

By the way, we've written so many blog posts about this topic, so in case you haven't read them… here are just a few.

5 Telltale Signs He Has Crippling Low Self Esteem

If He Loves You More Than You Love Him, Is It Worth a Chance?

Vulnerable Craving Hearts Attract Devoted and Trustworthy Men

How to Find a Good Man & Have a Lasting Relationship

How to Talk to a Man in a Way that Won’t Make him Pull Away and Go Cold

P.S. Below is a list of the programs we recommend for your situation. All these programs will be incredibly valuable for your situation and all of these will add to your understanding of men, love and relationships… so that you don't waste your time with the wrong man.

Our programs are created in three different pricing tiers, so that there's something affordable regardless of your financial situation. Our first recommendation is the Understanding Men program, as we believe this is the foundational program that all women need to go through.

(There's an entire section of Understanding Men that is dedicated to testing to see if he is an emotionally mature man or not!)

P.S. Wherever you are in your life right now, and however you feel today, you can start the journey of becoming a woman who understands men deeply, and as a result, will inspire men's admiration, respect and appreciation.

Whether you allow us to be your guide on this journey or find other guidance is up to you. Our only hope is for you to keep going and keep moving forward on that journey so that you can become a more valuable woman tomorrow than you were today.


There are 17 feminine physical triggers that Renee Wade carefully and meticulously identified and studied. These attraction triggers instantly get a man’s blood boiling uncontrollably and are hardwired triggers in a man’s DNA, something he has little to no control over.

Don’t you think it’s important to know what actually biologically triggers men on that instinctive level? Learn more about these triggers and see your attraction level with men turn up a notch.

(This is a general and basic level program, created for every woman.)

    Program Structure: PDF e-book format
    Who is this for: Single, Dating or In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen & Renee Wade
    Key Phrases: Attraction Triggers, Getting His Attention


Men are built to commit to the woman they perceive as their one and only. Question is, how do you become that valuable woman to your man?

In this course, we will show you the 5 secrets to have your chosen man fall in love with you & beg you to be his one & only!

(This is all brand new stuff that we haven’t taught before in any of our programs!)

    Program Structure: DVD with options for online version and platinum version
    Who is this for: Single, Looking and Dating, In a Relationship
    Author: Renee Wade
    Key Phrases: Becoming his one and only,Commitment resistance, Attraction and connection, Loyalty



What is he really thinking or feeling?

What are his deepest fears, desires, wishes and fantasies?

How can you as a woman get past his walls, masks and defences to really get through to his heart?

The answer is in our Understanding Men, because knowledge is power. And there’s infinite power in deeply understand men and their masculine perspectives.

(This is a basic program that we recommend for every woman of age, status and current situation to take.)

    Program Structure: Video Based 7 Module Program
    Who is this for: Single, Dating, In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen & Renee Wade
    Key Phrases: Masculine Perspective, Masculine desires and fears, masculine feminine polarity


Finding a deep sense of love and connectedness, attracting high value people into your life, the ability to create deep meaningful conversations, being able to elicit chemistry and emotional attraction, all these will become easy once you adopt a high value mindsets.

Discover the 7 specific high value mindsets you need in this masterclass.

(This is a basic program that we recommend for every woman of age, status and current situation to take.)

    Program Structure: Video Based Class
    Who is this for: Single, Dating, In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen
    Key Phrases: High Value Woman, Being High Value



Imagine having a very specific set of social skills that allow you to create emotional attraction with the man of your choice.

Now you can with the use of “Attraction Pebbles”.

These pebbles are small vestures and banter that make it impossible for him to not think of you and see you as high value and mysterious.

(This is an intermediate level program, suited for women with strong basic knowledge of men, love and relationship.)

    Program Structure: Video Based Program (12 episodes)
    Who is this for: Single, Dating, In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen
    Key Phrases: Cultivate Emotional Attraction, Make him fall in love, flirting with men,



In any long term relationship, commitment from a man doesn’t happen by chance, nor does it happen over time.

It happens when a woman embodies the exact energy or vibe that invites and inspires her man to commit to her deeply.

That energy is what we call “High Value Vulnerability”, and is the core of our most premium 4 week training program Commitment Control 2.

(This is an intermediate to advanced level program, suited for women who are dating or in a relationship.)

    Program Structure: 4 Week Premium Video Based Program
    Who is this for: Dating, In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen & Renee Wade
    Key Phrases: Inspire Commitment, High Value Vulnerability, Becoming his one and only, engagement and marriage, Attraction and connection.

Alternatively, you can click here to view the list all of our courses!