Great question to ask!
It isn't always easy to figure out "who" a man is deep down inside when externally they may seem like they have things figured out.
Sometimes you meet smooth talkers who seem to be saying all the right things but nothing ever falls into place.
"Does this man really want a deeply committed relationship?"
"Does he have the maturity and are able to take on the responsibility of a real relationship?"
These are the questions you will be able to answer once you have a deeper understanding of men, love, sex and relationships.
(And understanding of which specific questions to ask in order to take a peek deeper into any man's psyche.)
There's a whole section in our Commitment Control 2 program where we talk about commitment testing, but you might not be at that stage of the relationship yet…
So rather, I want you to focus on the 2 things that are the most important in any relationship… emotional attraction and emotional connection.
With enough of these 2 magical ingredients, you can inspire any non-committal, emotionally immature man to take on the responsibility of a real relationship with a real woman.
But in order to cultivate and deepen the feeling of emotional attraction and emotional connection with a man, you need to deeply understand how these work first. Below are the programs we suggest you look into for your situation.
By the way, we've written so many blog posts about this topic, so in case you haven't read them… here are just a few.
5 Telltale Signs He Has Crippling Low Self Esteem
If He Loves You More Than You Love Him, Is It Worth a Chance?
Vulnerable Craving Hearts Attract Devoted and Trustworthy Men
How to Find a Good Man & Have a Lasting Relationship
How to Talk to a Man in a Way that Won’t Make him Pull Away and Go Cold