Yes, I want to know how to maintain a healthy relationship and not lose my own identity in the process.


Sometimes as women, we tend to lose our own sense of self when we delve deeply into a relationship.

(That is a completely normal process!)

However, if you are not emotionally aware of the direction the relationship is going towards, or that you are sacrificing your own emotions for the relationship, then things will eventually crumble.

Because how you feel is important and how you feel needs to be respected.

A healthy relationship can never work when you have to suppress your own emotions.

What you really need to focus on right now is to understand the dynamics of a masculine feminine relationship so that you don't get yourself stuck in a situation where you can't get out but you're not happy either.

...Because a healthy relationship means to have a mutual respect for each other's wants, needs and fears.

And that comes from a deep understanding of the opposite sex. (Because men have a different set of needs, wants and fears to women, especially when it comes to an intimate relationship.)

By the way, we've written so many blog posts about this topic, so in case you haven't read them… here are just a few.

What is Femininity and How to Be Your Feminine Self

How to Deal with Fear of being Alone and Him Leaving You?

Think You’ve “Given too Much’ to a Man? You Probably Haven’t.

3 Reasons why you need to be worried if he comes on strong

He’s not ‘Making EXCUSES’. You Just haven’t Inspired him to Commit to You

P.S. Below is a list of the programs we recommend for your situation. All these programs will be incredibly valuable for your situation and all of these will add to your understanding of men, love and relationships… so that you can maintain your own identity and build a healthy relationship.

Our programs are created in three different pricing tiers, so that there's something affordable regardless of your financial situation. Our first recommendation is the Understanding Men program, as we believe this is the foundational program that all women need to go through as it covers the masculine perspective in all aspects of love and relationship.

P.S. Wherever you are in your life right now, and however you feel today, you can start the journey of becoming a woman who understands men deeply, and as a result, will inspire men's admiration, respect and appreciation.

Whether you allow us to be your guide on this journey or find other guidance is up to you. Our only hope is for you to keep going and keep moving forward on that journey so that you can become a more valuable woman tomorrow than you were today.


There are 17 feminine physical triggers that instantly get a man’s blood boiling uncontrollably and have him fixated on you. (…and yes, these triggers are hardwired into every man’s neurology and biology.)

Learn exactly what these 17 attraction triggers are and what they can do for you!

(This is a general and basic level program, created for every woman.)

    Program Structure: PDF e-book format
    Who is this for: Single, Dating or In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen & Renee Wade
    Key Phrases: Attraction Triggers, Getting His Attention


Men are built to commit to the woman they perceive as their one and only. Question is, how do you become that valuable woman to your man?

In this course, we will show you the 5 secrets to have your chosen man fall in love with you & beg you to be his one & only!

(This is all brand new stuff that we haven’t taught before in any of our programs!)

    Program Structure: DVD with options for online version and platinum version
    Who is this for: Single, Looking and Dating, In a Relationship
    Author: Renee Wade
    Key Phrases: Becoming his one and only,Commitment resistance, Attraction and connection, Loyalty



What is he really thinking or feeling?

What are his deepest fears, desires, wishes and fantasies?

How can you as a woman get past his walls, masks and defences to really get through to his heart?

The answer is in our Understanding Men, because knowledge is power. And there’s infinite power in deeply understand men and their masculine perspectives.

(This is a basic program that we recommend for every woman of age, status and current situation to take.)

    Program Structure: Video Based 7 Module Program
    Who is this for: Single, Dating, In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen & Renee Wade
    Key Phrases: Masculine Perspective, Masculine desires and fears, masculine feminine polarity


Finding a deep sense of love and connectedness, attracting high value people into your life, the ability to create deep meaningful conversations, being able to elicit chemistry and emotional attraction, all these will become easy once you adopt a high value mindsets.

Discover the 7 specific high value mindsets you need in this masterclass.

(This is a basic program that we recommend for every woman of age, status and current situation to take.)

    Program Structure: Video Based Class
    Who is this for: Single, Dating, In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen
    Key Phrases: High Value Woman, Being High Value



Imagine having a very specific set of social skills that allow you to create emotional attraction with the man of your choice.

Now you can with the use of “Attraction Pebbles”.

These pebbles are small vestures and banter that make it impossible for him to not think of you and see you as high value and mysterious.

(This is an intermediate level program, suited for women with strong basic knowledge of men, love and relationship.)

    Program Structure: Video Based Program (12 episodes)
    Who is this for: Single, Dating, In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen
    Key Phrases: Cultivate Emotional Attraction, Make him fall in love, flirting with men,



In any long term relationship, commitment from a man doesn’t happen by chance, nor does it happen over time.

It happens when a woman embodies the exact energy or vibe that invites and inspires her man to commit to her deeply.

That energy is what we call “High Value Vulnerability”, and is the core of our most premium 4 week training program Commitment Control 2.

(This is an intermediate to advanced level program, suited for women who are dating or in a relationship.)

    Program Structure: 4 Week Premium Video Based Program
    Who is this for: Dating, In a relationship
    Author: D. Shen & Renee Wade
    Key Phrases: Inspire Commitment, High Value Vulnerability, Becoming his one and only, engagement and marriage, Attraction and connection.

Alternatively, you can click here to view the list all of our courses!