Finally Revealed: 3 words to get engaged in 7 days…
Discover these 3 magical words that got our coaching client Debbie to go from heartbreak, humiliation and uncertainty to literally becoming engaged in 7 short days.
(...And how you can use the same strategy to get the ring & his commitment in your life fast and effortlessly.)
The huge fight that started it all….
On a warm spring afternoon many moons ago, Renée and I had a huge fight in the car.
It wasn’t a shoes flying across the room kind of fight…
But rather it was a “is this the end” kind of fight.
We had been together as boyfriend and girlfriend for many years at that point, and she felt like the relationship wasn’t progressing in the way she wanted.
She felt like she was running out of time.
From my perspective, I was as committed as any man could be.
But there was no rush to get married. I thought it’d be better to wait until we were in a better financial situation.
After all, we were broke, trying to make ends meet and were on the verge of being homeless thanks to some narcissistic parents.
So having a stable roof over our heads was the more important problem to solve.
And then she started to cry…
Our whole future was crumbling before our eyes.
It’s in stressful times like these that relationships often break down and couples break up.
Suddenly we weren’t seeing eye to eye on anything.
Suddenly our whole future that we had imagined, planned and daydreamed about was crumbling before our eyes.
Was this the end for us?
After all, nothing Renee had said to me up to that point about commitment and marriage could have logically or rationally convinced me otherwise.
It simply wasn’t important to me as a man.
After all, can’t a man be just as committed without marriage?
(All the men in the world just raised their hands in agreement.)
And then 3 words came out of her mouth that changed everything…
The 3 words that changed the trajectory of the relationship…
When those 3 words came out of her mouth…
I had no response.
I couldn’t rebut it with a logical reason, nor defend my position with rational solutions.
I couldn’t do anything but to feel what she felt.
…And in that moment, I “got” it.
I felt it.
I realised in that moment, I hadn’t even considered any of this from Renee’s perspective.
I didn’t realise Renée (like almost all women) saw marriage as the ultimate form of commitment from a man.
I didn’t realise her feminine soul needed commitment in order to feel safe, because I’m a guy and I don’t need the same.
I only saw things from my own masculine perspective, the only perspective that made sense to me until that moment.
No amount of logical reasoning or rationalisation could have made me budge, yet it took just these 3 magical words that instantly changed my whole perspective.
And in case you needed closure on our story… I got her the ring 8 months after that fateful afternoon in the car.
Oh yeah, in case you didn’t realise, we stayed together and now we are raising 3 beautiful kids.
When I taught these 3 words to our coaching client…
Fast forward a tad and I had a rich coaching client from the Bahamas, (let’s call her Debbie) who was beyond frustrated and in tears because she couldn’t get her man to marry her.
Debbie knew he cared about her, (they’d been together close to 7 years.) but he kept on making excuses for why they couldn’t get married just yet.
I could see that she was visibly feeling vulnerable through the Skype window on my laptop.
She went on and started telling me how there’s been so much friction and tension in her relationship lately.
She explained how HUMILIATED and DEGRADED she felt that she was still considered only a “girlfriend” and how hopeless she felt because she didn’t know what to do about the whole situation.
She confided in me that she really wanted to be married… but her boyfriend wasn’t doing anything to make that happen.
As such she felt like her relationship was completely stagnant… (And she even thought about leaving the relationship many times.)
So in the very first session, I gave her these three words to say to her man…
And to this day, I cannot believe what happened next…
7 days later, her subject line was in all caps… “I AM ENGAGED!”
An email came through to my inbox exactly 7 days after our coaching session…
And I still remember seeing it in my inbox, because her subject line was in all caps, “I AM ENGAGED!”
I literally jumped out of my seat, I got so excited.
Not in my wildest dreams I’d imagine it would happen so fast.
And our coaching client Debbie, she was so happy, she couldn’t even believe it herself.
At this point, I was starting to think, perhaps there is something more to these 3 little words…
Perhaps there's something inherently powerful in expressing these 3 words to a man?
Perhaps we need to test this out on our other coaching clients...
Turns out, she wasn’t the only one…
Now I know what you’re thinking… what if this was a fluke? What if it was a 1 in a million chance type of coincidence?
At the time, we thought the same…
…Until more of our members started to find success as well.
It turns out, Debbie wasn’t the only one to make these 3 magical words work for her. She just happened to do it in 7 days, whereas others took a little longer.
Seeing these women so happy being engaged, we asked ourselves, why is it that these 3 magical words work so effortlessly and effectively in getting women the commitment they desperately wanted and needed?
Why do these 3 magical words get men to propose so effortlessly?
After seeing the success of our members, we realised that the deeper reason why these 3 magical words work so easily is because of a concept we’ve coined “High Value Vulnerability.”
What does that mean, you ask? It means your ability to express your feminine vulnerabilities without being value taking in the process.
Because it’s your vulnerabilities as a feminine soul that have all the power in inspiring his deepest commitment and devotion. (Otherwise why would you even need a man and why would men feel needed?)
So covering up your vulnerabilities is betraying the greatest power you have as a woman.
Ultimately what you have to realise is that men don’t fear commitment. They fear committing to the wrong woman.
They fear making the wrong choice in the woman they choose, therefore it’s often a safer bet for men to wait.
These 3 magical words work because they instantly make you the right woman in his eyes.
These 3 magical words work because they instantly make your man feel needed, wanted and have a greater purpose than himself.
These 3 magical words work because they make your feminine desire to get married a value adding experience for the man, rather than a value taking experience.
How to accelerate the commitment process on warp speed…
Here’s the thing to remember… men don’t have the same sense of urgency when it comes to the commitment process.
In fact, men’s relationship timeline is entirely different to women’s relationship timeline.
Remember, men don’t focus on relationships growing up. Men don’t talk about relationships like women do.
It’s often not a part of their masculine world.
Remember, men can father kids for almost their entire lifespan. On top of that, they are not the ones throwing up in the morning thanks to carrying precious life inside of them.
As such, men don’t relate to the sheer vulnerability of women and what women have to go through. (If they did, things would be very different.)
So in order to accelerate the commitment process, your man has to feel what you feel on a gut level and be on the same page as you.
That often requires a sense of selflessness on his part that can only inspired by your ability to be selfless and the strength of the relationship you have cultivated.
How to get him to marry you the easy way…
Yes, you can pressure your man and there’s a small chance you might even succeed… but that short term success will almost always come with a long term negative consequence.
Perhaps that comes in the form of a toxic divorce, or life long resentment.
The reason behind this is the fact that by applying explicit pressure on a man, you are inherently taking value from him.
Your intimate relationship isn’t just a business deal where you are trying to strike up a great deal for yourself or get the longer end of the stick. It doesn’t work that way.
Your intimate relationship is a place where you are supposed to have trust, intimacy and a growing source of love. (Otherwise you don’t have an intimate relationship, you have a trading partner.)
As long as you’re trying to get the longer end of the stick, your man will have his defences up and his resistance high. (Because he knows that if this is the game you’re playing then there’s always a short end of the stick.)
So let’s not play this power struggle game.
But rather, the only real way to get him to WANT to marry you is to express your feminine vulnerability in a way that adds value to him, not take value away from him.
That is what these 3 magical words achieve so effortlessly.
These 3 magical words will get you the ring effortlessly fast.
So if you want to use the power of these 3 magical words in your own life to get the commitment you desperately want, then here’s the good news.
Over the last dozen years, we have been busy raising our young family, and we’ve only recently had the time to revisit these 3 magical words and package them in a way that offers you maximum benefit.
We’ve put together a brand new book titled “3 Magical Words”, so that you can fully understand and appreciate the why, the when and the how of using these 3 words to get the commitment you wish for.
This is your chance to embrace and adopt the power of these “3 Magical Words”.
This is your chance to finally get the ring and the commitment your heart truly desires.
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After all as the smart folks would tell you, the more knowledge we have, the more powerful we become.
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Got questions? Here's what other women have asked...
Surely 3 little words can’t get him to marry me, right?
I’m sure there’s a part of you that’s thinking… there is no way 3 words can get him to marry me. I mean, I’ve talked his ear off for days and nothing has worked…
I hear you.
And of course, we can’t simply guarantee you’ll be engaged within 7 days like our coaching client Debbie. No one can.
Some relationships are in terrible health and need drastic repairs first.
Some relationships are extremely toxic in nature and intervention is required.
However, assuming your relationship is relatively healthy and strong to begin with, then these 3 magical words will give your man all the motivation he needs to take the next step.
These 3 magical words may just become the keystone that unlocks his deepest realisation that he wants to be there for you forever.
Think of these 3 magical words as the rocket boosters that accelerate the commitment process on warp speed.
But I’m different, no advice has worked for me…
The truth is, many of our existing members were skeptical like you once upon a time. And honestly it’s good to be skeptical.
There’s a ton of junk on the internet and I don’t want you to fall for any of it.
(Perhaps all that junk is why you feel like no advice has worked for you…)
In fact, stay away from any merchant out there not offering a money back guarantee… we’ve been in this market for over 15 years now and we’ve seen the good, the bad and the ugly.
So if you can’t fully decide whether this is something that would truly benefit you, then here’s what I want you to do.
Go through the whole “3 Magical Words” book, and all the bonuses. Let the new knowledge digest. Allow yourself to make some new connections in your mind.
And in 30 days time, ask yourself… have I gotten at least 10 times the value I paid for?
If your answer is anything but a resounding “YES”, then I insist you have your money back.
That’s how we’ve always done business and it ain’t about to change.
But perhaps I should push down my desire for marriage?
No doubt you’d relate to the idea that marriage is inherently important to you, as a feminine soul.
And look, you’re not alone. We recently surveyed our Facebook Group of 14,000 women, and literally 9 out of 10 women desired marriage at a 10/10 level.
We want that security, that fullness and that sense of certainty. (And there is no shame in admitting it!)
So it’s important for you to embrace that desire rather than to push it down, perhaps due to masculine pressures, or past disappointments.
Because ultimately by pushing it down, it doesn’t make it any more likely for any man to want to marry you.
In fact, the very opposite is true.
So don’t turn your back on your feminine soul’s deepest desires.
I want you to embrace that deep seated desire in your feminine heart of hearts to be married, and use it in value adding ways with your chosen man.
Use this desire of yours to transform your relationship into the most delicious, enviable bond that anyone would dream of.
That is what we will teach you.
But what if he’s pulled away right now?
There are many reasons why your man is pulled away right now. Perhaps he needs to recharge his masculine batteries or focus on a project or deadline…
Or perhaps he’s lost some interest.
So it’s important to know where he’s at emotionally, and the way you do this is through testing and being attuned.
However, it is never easy when your man has pulled away. Fear is almost always inevitable.
But the last thing you want to do is act out of fear.
Fear makes you cling onto value and makes you look low value.
So the best thing to do, is to learn how to stay high value when this happens so that when he comes back to you, he’ll have more appreciation, respect and love for you.
If you’d like to learn more about what to do when your man pulls away, CLICK HERE to read more.
But why are men so stubborn and thick?
Yes, men are stubborn and thick, for good reasons too. (They’re not just hairy women!)
What I mean is… they don’t see the inherent value of marriage like women do.
They are not inherently vulnerable like women. They don’t have a womb to protect, they don’t have cyclical waves of hormones dictating their thoughts actions and feelings.
So very often, what is super intuitive to women, is completely foreign to men.
To almost all men, marriage has little value to them other than to adhere to social norms.
They don’t get that marriage is a 10/10 desire for most women. They don’t get that it’s a huge source of value to women.
As a result, all they see is marriage been a huge potential for value extraction to them as masculine souls. In other words, all the risk and no reward.
But don’t fret, there is a way to get your chosen man to see marriage as no risk and all reward…
It’s about adding value whilst expressing your feminine vulnerability. (We teach this in the book!)
But what if I can’t find any good men?
Good question.
Dating apps have really changed the whole dating landscape, and as such you need to adapt.
If you can’t seem to find any decent men, then you need a completely different approach.
Remember in order to find those “good” men, you need to be of great value in the eyes of these men. But what is great value you ask?
At the beginning stages of any interaction or relationship, the greatest value you can bring to the table is your ability to be playful.
That’s it.
Because playfulness is the prerequisite for emotional attraction.
If you want to learn more, please attend our free class on how you can achieve this… (CLICK HERE to sign up for the free class.)
But can’t I learn all this from YouTube?
The short and sweet answer is a no, certainly not.
Youtube and other social media sites are great for some entertainment but not great to find world class advice and coaching.
…And world class advice and coaching is all that we’ve done for the past 15 years. (…that’s 30 years of combined experience between the both of us)
We’ve had clients paying us $5,000 USD for 2 hours of our time, not because they’re silly but because they perceived great value in our advice and coaching.
As the cool kids would say, the most expensive advice is free advice.
So remember, this is your life. You get to live it once. Choose wisely.
We’d love to help you achieve everything you want in your love life. We want you to follow in the proven footsteps of all our other members.
Come on this journey with us, it will change your life.
Who are we to teach you anyway?
Renee Wade
Author at The Feminine Woman, Thought Leader on Femininity, Sexual Polarity and Intimate Relationships.
When Renee first founded The Feminine Woman back in 2009, she had only one mission - to help women have a deeper understanding of men, dating & relationships. She realised that by understanding and appreciating certain aspects of men and their masculine energy, it made communicating to men, creating attraction and deep connection with men exponentially easier & smoother.
The biggest inspirations behind her desire to teach the feminine masculine difference was through her own struggles in her personal relationship and the relationship of her closest friends.
After completing law school, Renee made the leap of faith to pursue her passion in teaching relationship and spiritual skills and mindsets and she has not looked back. Her blog The Feminine Woman has attracted over a million visitors and continue to inspire women from around the world.
Renee has authored a large portion of the programs here at Shen Wade Media and will continue to create the latest and most cutting edge content.
D. Shen
Founder of Commitment Triggers, Author, World Class Coach & Thought Leader on Attraction, Love & Intimate Relationships.
D. Shen is also the founder of CommitmentTriggers.com where he teaches women how to show up as high value high status, how to inspire a deep sense of emotional commitment from any man and create that healthy, passionate relationship we all crave.
For the past decade, he took it upon himself to research and figure out the science as well as the art of long term commitment, falling in love, and staying in love.
D. Shen deeply believes that we all deserve love in this lifetime. He believes that every single one of us has the capacity and the power to create that deep soulmate relationship that we all crave.
Ultimately he believes that if we can create more relationships that are built upon attraction, passion and love, rather than fear, insecurities and guilt, then the world will become a better and safer place. With stronger relationships come stronger individuals, stronger families and stronger societies and therefore a better future for our next generation.
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