Dear Lovely Friend and Special Soul…

It’s D. Shen & Renee here the founders of Shen Wade Media.

If you do not have true emotional commitment from your man, then you are bound to have an insecure, unfulfilling, and unhappy relationship.

If you do not inspire your man to commit to you at the deepest level, then you are playing with a time bomb that is ticking down, eventually annihilating your relationship, your self esteem and your life altogether.

This lack of commitment in your relationship will also affect the rest of your life. It kills your confidence in your day to day life, your self esteem goes out the window, and you will attract other negative & insecure people into your life.

People will see you as less, and other women will look down upon your relationship and give judgments to your character.

This isn't us striking fear upon you. This is what we see every single day having coached women for the last ten plus years.

Because the truth is, commitment is the ULTIMATE resource for any woman who is truly feminine in her soul.

Commitment is ultimately what she craves and yearns for in her heart.

Maybe you just don’t know why he hasn’t called you back… maybe he's lost the interest he had for you at the beginning...

Maybe you are just sick and tired of waiting… waiting for something to happen… but it never does. The relationship seems to be stuck… at a point where you don’t feel secure, and you don’t know what to do…

Here’s the thing, I’m sick of seeing women losing out in their relationship and feeling empty, lonely and unfulfilled… Never able to settle down and have the lifelong commitment that all feminine souls crave!

So you try a few things... but invariably they backfire. What you try seems to only push him further and further away, and make the relationship even less stable.

Sometimes it feels like a slight wrong move or a step in the wrong direction will make everything blow up like a grenade. It's as if you're trying to hold together a house made of cards...

Look, that is just not the way to live. It's hurting you and it's ripping you apart on the inside. I think you would agree with me when I think that most of us women have felt that at some stage in our lives... being in a relationship where you don’t know what the future holds, and it is horrible.

But also, I know what it feels like to have absolute certainty and security in an intimate relationship, so much so that there’s a sense of warmth that engulfs you and takes you over. (...There’s really nothing quite like it.)

Just imagine for a second, the joy, the freedom and the security in your life and in your relationship, knowing that it’s heading exactly where you want it to go.

That’s what I want you to feel. That’s what I want you to attract into your own life.

What if I told you, having that secure and committed relationship has nothing to do with how beautiful you look, or how attractive you are?

Look at one of the highest rated Hollywood actresses Kate Beckinsale… She’s rated as one of the most attractive women in all of showbiz. (But your attractiveness has little to do with a man’s commitment to you.)

Kate was in an 8 year relationship with another actor named Michael Sheen that ended in 2003… but why did they break up? Because he would not take the next step and marry.

It dragged on and on, and in the end she felt so humiliated that she couldn't take it anymore. Kate realised that waiting for a man to commit is not going to work.

Men aren't the same as women.

Men don’t have the same relationship timeline as women do.

Not to mention she even had a child with this man in the 8 years they were together. Now let me tell you about a love story you may not have heard about...

If you know anything about basketball, you may have heard of Mr John Wooden. He is THE most successful basketball coach in the history of the sport. He had won 10 NCAA championships, an achievement that nobody has ever come close to. He was a man's man.

Mr Wooden passed away back in 2010, but what he had left behind was not just his unbelievable legacy in basketball, but a love story that is not to be forgotten.

If you want to read further about John Wooden and his commitment and loyalty to his late wife Nelly, simply google John Wooden love letters.

Nelly, his wife of 53 years passed away back in 1985. He made a promise to her then that he had kept until his own dying day 25 years later.

On the 21st of every month, he sits down and writes a love letter to his beloved Nelly. No one gets to read his letters, not even his own family. He would tell her how much he loves her and misses her and that he can’t wait to see her.

He would fold the letter once, and put it in a light blue envelope. He would go to the stack of love letters on Nelly’s side of bed. He would untie the little yellow ribbon and place the new letter on top. Then he would tie the little yellow ribbon one more time.

By the time Mr Wooden had passed away, there were almost 300 letters in this stack.

When asked about death, Mr Wooden would softly say, “I’m not afraid to die, it’s the only way I get to see her again”.

Isn’t that incredible?

What makes this man, Mr. Wooden so loyal and committed to his wife, to one woman? And an even better question would be… what kind of woman would inspire a man to be so loyal and committed?

You will stumble across the answer as you read word by word the rest of this page.

I don’t know where you are in your relationship right now. Maybe you’ve just gone on your third date, or maybe fifth date. Maybe you guys have been hanging out for a while now, but nothing serious has happened.

Maybe you guys have been “seriously” dating for 6 months, and you would like things to be taken to the next level.

Or perhaps you guys have been “together” for many years, but he still hasn’t popped the question… what’s going on there? Where is this relationship going?

You see, relationships can be tricky and confusing.

Why do some women easily get commitment from their men, yet for other women…(ie. You perhaps?) you can’t get anyone to call you back or take things to the next level?

The answer is all about understanding the commitment process, from a man’s perspective.

Have you ever heard of the kinds of story where the man never really committed to any women in his past, yet one day, he finds that one special girl who he instantly puts all his eggs in her basket?

This kind of story happens all the time, in the magazines, in Hollywood movies and probably in your own circle of friends somewhere.

So the point here is, that no matter how complicated the relationship is right now, or how stagnant things are going, once you become the “right” women in the relationship to inspire commitment, then it will naturally come to you.

It’s basically the law of attraction.

You see, a man’s desire to commit, is directly proportionate to how much value you or the relationship adds to his life.

And a man’s commitment resistance will increase if he perceives less value in the relationship and less value in the woman he’s with.

You see, most men will have commitment resistance somewhere along the commitment path. That’s quite normal and in fact to be expected!

So it’s really your job as a woman, to overcome these barriers and help a man to lower his own commitment resistance. But to do that, you’ll need to understand a few things about men.

You see, I really believe there’s really nothing more beautiful than a heartfelt marriage proposal. If you haven’t ever Youtubed “wedding proposals”, then I think you’ll really enjoy the hundreds of amazing proposals that men have meticulously planned, organised and carried out.

It is important for you to know what signs to look out for when your man isn’t planning to commit. Not only will this save you a bunch of your time and youth, but also save you the heartache, the heartbreak, the frustration and resentment that you will feel later on.

In fact, I believe you should ALWAYS be testing AND be attuned to the level of commitment in your relationship. Why’s that? Because commitment really isn’t a one time event, but a process.

So if he isn’t keeping that promise, then you want to know about it!

Here are some warning signs that your man won’t commit to you, or isn’t committing to you right now.

• He’s lost interest in spending quality time with you… but instead, he’d rather do his own thing over spending time with you.
• He never talks about being exclusive with you or has never planned to live under the same roof as you.
• He has never been interested in looking at engagement rings, or has never really thought about married life.

• He doesn’t like to have as much sex with you as he used to.
• He doesn’t desire you as much as he used to.
• He frequently forgets things that you tell him or things that you ask him to do.
• He has become less and less generous when it comes to his time, his attention and his money.
• He is interested in other women.
• He is going out late more often, and making excuses for them.
• He is becoming more elusive and it’s hard to know his whereabouts.
• The relationship feels like it’s not as close as it once was.
• He hasn’t got any plans for the future… either in his career or his relationship.

So if your man has exhibited any of these signs, (and the more signs, the worse things are…) then I suggest you pay your full attention to the rest of this article and learn what you can do about this.

First of all, let me tell you something important…

That’s right, women like yourself are ruining their own chances of marriage… and they aren’t even aware of it.

Have you ever sat by your phone or called him repeatedly… when you were not sure what he was up to?

Have you given up parts of your own life, just so that you could spend time with him?

You see, mistakes like these are commonly made by women (even though these women have great intentions…), and they are destroying any chance of having their man commit to them at the level they want.

Let me explain…

Commitment to a man means very different things to you as a woman!

Commitment to a man can sometimes feel more like a ball and chain, or a burden on his life. It’s just another responsibility, and another obligation that he has to fulfil in his day to day life.

In fact, there are only a few reasons why a man would naturally want to commit to a woman. (And believe it or not, sex is NOT one of those reasons. Sex can be oftentimes cheap and readily available)

Men commit to women, not because of logical reasons. They rarely ever logically make that decision and weigh up the pros and cons of commitment. This is because commitment is an emotional decision for the man, not a logical decision.

He has to feel strongly and positively about commitment emotionally, which will then inspire him to take action to take the relationship to the next level. He has to feel safe with you, and trust you with his emotions.

You see, a relationship is a feminine domain, and therefore men sometimes feel uneasy about their own emotions. They need us to make them feel safe in that space.

But before I go on about what would make a man commit himself, and his life to you, let’s talk about why he ISN’T doing so right now.

As most of us women know intuitively… time is ticking.

Every day that passes, is one more day that your relationship doesn’t feel secure to you.

Every day that passes, is your chances of having a secure, stable, reliable relationship slipping away.

You cannot change the fact that time is ticking, and will always tick away. The only thing you can change is your relationship, or change the status of your relationship and how you feel about that.

As women, if we don’t actually inspire our man to commit, then when will we ever have children and a loving family? Remember, our biological clock is completely different to a man’s biological clock.

A man could have children all the way to his seventies, but as a woman, everyday closer to 40 years of age means a fraction less chance of bearing children.

Imagine breaking up with your man… it may take you 2 or more years to settle down with someone else.

You’ll have to go through the same process of… going on dates, getting to know each other, moving in together (if that’s what you want) and having him propose…get married and then you get to have babies.

How long would all that take realistically? I think 2 years is definitely an underestimate, especially for most of the population.

So it’s absolutely necessary that you at least learn what would make a man commit and what repels them from wanting to commit. Without that basic understanding, you will essentially live a life of uncertainty, having no security and stability in your relationship, and may end up being old, and alone one day.

(No one deserves to be old and alone, so don’t let that be you!)

Look, I don't know the answer for you.

(This isn't a rhetorical question.)

Some women are OK with the idea of spending the next 10 years alone and nothing will change their mind.

But what about YOU?

Look 10 years into the future, where do you see yourself? Where do you see your relationship if you keep following the same old trajectory you've been on?

In which direction is your relationship heading down? In other words, are you and your man getting closer and deeper in love every day that passes…

Or is there more distance in your relationship every day?

What is your gut level response to that question?

I don’t know what the right answer is for you, but you should always trust your gut instinct. It has never let you down.

If what you've been doing in the past haven't worked for you, then something needs to change.

If you haven't had any luck inspiring a deep emotional commitment from your chosen man, then my guess is that you need to have a deeper understanding of how the commitment process works for men.

That is where you will find all of your success!

From everything you've read on this page, you would probably have a good overview of the commitment process for a man and some important mindset shifts regarding commitment. You can take all the information and let it all sink in.

If you want to continue this journey, then here's the good news.

We have put together “hands down” THE BEST program in the world on inspiring commitment in men. But wait, we don’t say that to boast, we don’t like to do that.

In fact, it is our members who say it for us.

We don’t just teach this because we have been through every stage of the commitment process ourselves...

We teach this course because we have coached literally thousands of women from have gone from not knowing what to do in their complicated relationships to having their man progressively shift his energy, start caring about the relationship to a point where many of our members even became engaged and married.

We teach this course because we are both absolutely passionate about creating deep and meaningful relationships and teaching the mindset and skills so others can create the same for themselves.

This 4 week Commitment Control 2 coaching program is personally taught by both of us and it is literally a step by step walk-through of everything you need to know and do, in order for you to inspire your man to step up and commit more of his attention, emotions, time and resources to you.

(...And even more importantly, inspire him to make a lifelong promise and commitment to you.)

Commitment Control 2 is literally a step by step walk-through of everything you need to know and do, in order for you to inspire your man, to step up and commit more of his attention, time and resources to you.

...And even more importantly, inspire him to make that lifelong promise and commitment to you.

Here's a small glimpse of what you will be learning in this 4 week program...

Honestly, there is a lot of content inside this program. We've gone deeper and more personal in Commitment Control 2 than any of our other training programs.

So all the content is specifically designed and spread over the next 4 weeks.

The way the video lessons are designed; your understanding and your awareness will grow exponentially deeper as each week goes by. Everything builds on top of your existing learning.

Not to mention this way, you won't be overwhelmed with the material and you'll get adequate time to complete the homework assignments.

Here's what you should expect over the next four weeks...

Imagine this for a moment…

Imagine the joy of a deeply committed and secure relationship...

Imagine how that would impact you and your emotions?

No more questioning where the relationship is going… now you have assurance, certainty and you can have comfort in that certainty.

No more worries about the future of the relationship, or perhaps the lack of a future…

No more humiliation in front of other women, who may actually be laughing behind your back… as to why you guys are “still just dating…?” or “seeing each other”.

No more of being unsure whether he’ll be there in the future or not… and instead, have him naturally wanting to make that promise to you.

Inspire him to take the relationship to the next level, and give you more of himself than he’s ever given.

Imagine the warmth of assurance, the comfort of knowing that you are NOT wasting your time, and that your energy, youth and time is NOT being wasted.

Imagine having no regrets later on, knowing that you’ve made the right choice.

Think about it for a moment…what is all that worth to you? What is it worth to you in terms of your health? Your emotions? Even your finances?

This is exactly what happened to one of our members who just shared a recent update. (Hint: she just got engaged!)

Listen to what she said... "It's happening!!! I learned how to be a real woman through Renee and David and I got me a real man!" (...And check out all those emojis!)

But this isn't really that impressive because thousands of people become engaged every single day. What IS amazing about this lady's progress, is that she was always an insecurely attached woman! All her past boyfriends kept breaking up with her due to her emotional volatility, and that is in her own words too!

So, considering her background, this is absolutely amazing news. It really shows that you can attract love and a deep commitment regardless of how "broken" or even unworthy you feel right now.

...And you know what? I'm so happy for her. I think we should all congratulate her. Not for her sake but for your own sake, so that you can acknowledge that part of yourself that deserves love passion and commitment.

Is this lady's results TYPICAL when you follow my advice and teachings?

Of course not. I can't promise your Mr. Right will show up suddenly and sweep you off your feet just because you came to my website.

Most women will never take the responsibility to take it upon themselves to evolve, to grow, to become more.

The women who love to blame men will probably continue blaming men. The women who love to victimise themselves will continue to do that.

But that ain't you, right?

I can promise you that if you take it upon yourself to learn, to grow and to fully embody the woman that you truly are, then you will no doubt have amazing results in your own life, just like this lady did.

I have no doubt that if you give yourself the space to learn the details of what it takes to become a man's "One and Only" (like I'm about to teach you), then you will inevitably attract an absolute abundance of love, attraction and commitment into your life.

This is something that you probably hadn’t thought of…

But what is it really going to cost you, to not have that committed relationship right now?

Is it causing damage to your emotions? Your self esteem?

The stress of it all is probably also causing your body damage and disrupting your hormones.

Perhaps it’s even causing you to be less productive, and causing you to sabotage your professional life.

So let me ask you this, what is a life worth when you go through this on a day to day basis?

We all only have one chance at life, we all have to make the most of it.

Can you really put a price tag on the loss of your time, your youth and your life? Can you really afford to lose years from the most precious resource we all have, our time?

(Remember, every year that passes means the chances of you finding that close committed relationship decreases)

Imagine, wasting a whole year. Imagine wasting the whole year’s salary of $45,000. After all, what’s money worth when you don’t get the commitment that fulfils your soul?

So the point is, you can NEVER put a price tag on your time, and your life.

You have to come FIRST!

It is your time to handle this part of your life, once and for good.

Because that is exactly the investment when you join us inside of Commitment Control 2, when you spread the cost over the period of just one single year.

Compare that to any university degree... (We have 3 between us, and that costed us over $100,000.)

Compare that to being private coaching clients of ours. The last client paid us $5,000 USD for only 2 hours of our time.

But most importantly, compare this to the cost of NOT learning how to naturally inspire your chosen man to commit deeply to you...

The choice almost seems too simple.

Now let me ask you this, when was the last time you trusted your gut and taken that leap of faith?

So if your gut instinct says that this is a program you would totally benefit from, then trust your gut instinct as it is almost never wrong.

I know this is probably a leap of faith for you, but once you're on the other side, you'll realise how "RIGHT" of a decision that was for you.

(But you’ll never know if you don’t take the leap)

I remember back years ago, I wanted to go to a seminar that costed over $6000. (That's right, no joke, it was 6k a seat). Only problem was, I had no money at all… and we needed 2 tickets for the both of us.

I scratched my head for days and days tying to figure out how to get the money together, and I just couldn't figure out how I could make it happen… until 2 days before the event. Something came over me, and call me crazy but I knew I had to attend this seminar. There was no other way.

I trusted my gut instinct. I knew I had to take that leap of faith.

And I did.

I borrowed, and I borrowed some more. I found slightly cheaper tickets on the 7th page of google search. I didn't sleep for 2 nights, but I made it happen.

The next thing I knew, we were on a plane across the country on the morning of the registration day and I never looked back. I smiled to myself all the way there because I knew this was right.

But it wasn’t easy trusting my gut instinct! It was hard.

As it turns out, the seminar was life changing and no amount of money could have replaced it.

I can only say that because I took a leap of faith.

Look, I was scared, I'd never borrowed any amount of money before, let alone this much. But I also knew that if I didn't take the leap faith, I would simply go back to the mundane day to day life.

Nothing would change, I’d go back to status quo. (And I couldn’t live with that)

That event was probably the greatest investment I made in myself. Not because of the cost (I've now attended even more expensive workshops), but because of the courage it took to take that step forward when I had little resources.

Now I invite you to join us in Commitment Control 2. The investment for the whole program is 3 monthly payments of $299.

The investment in yourself: priceless.

I can honestly say with all my heart and soul that the leap of faith I took change the direction of my life for the better, but I can't decide for you. Only you can.

So the question is, will you take the leap of faith today?

Good question… Let me tell you what is better.

With every program we have ever released, we've always offered a very generous money back guarantee. There have been no exceptions.

The basic deal is, test out our program, and at the end of the program, (or after 30 full days), if you feel for any reason that particular program wasn't for you, then we insist you get all your money back.

Simple.

We do this because we know that not every program is designed for every woman.

Your specific needs are not another woman's needs. So therefore certain programs would be more valuable to you than other ones.

With this “Commitment Control 2” program, we will be offering the same 30 day full money back guarantee.

But let's sweeten the deal here.

I know it's not always easy to take the leap of faith and invest in a live digital class like this for a lot of people. Some of you may not know what to expect. For some of you this could be totally outside your comfort zone.

I totally understand. (After all, we've all gone through that stage!)

So here's what I want to do for you.

At the end of this program, if you have not been blown away by the class for any reason, we will send you your money back AND I will personally send you a $25 Amazon Gift Card alongside your refund just as a way of saying… "Thanks for taking the leap of faith in attending this program!”

No hard feelings because I know this class isn't for everyone. Some people are ready for the content and the value of this class, some people are not. That's completely OK.

By now you probably already know whether Commitment Control 2 is right for you. But just in case you’re still not sure, then remember, this program is probably NOT for you if…

You’re already in a deeply fulfilled relationship whereby your man gives you absolute certainty in where the relationship is going, he explicitly expresses his love for you and his intention to take care of you for life, and he actively shares all his attention, all his resources and his time with you.

On the other hand, if you’re unsure about your relationship, or you’re unsure what the future holds for you and your boyfriend, then I would totally suggest that you get started with Commitment Control 2 today, at no risk to you.

After all, time is ticking.

If your man isn’t giving you his promise to take care of you for life, then you need to learn to give so much value to him that he wouldn't want to live without you.

If your man isn’t giving you the full attention that you want or deserve, then you need to inspire him to commit more of his attention on a regular basis.

If your man isn’t giving you the time or the physical resources you need, then you need to learn what triggers would inspire him to commit more. As I have described earlier, this is not to a way to manipulate him, but rather tapping into what energy naturally make men WANT to commit.

Can you really afford to NOT invest only $2.19 a day in the ultimate knowledge you need as a woman? 

(...And continue this trend of loneliness, emptiness and being unloved?)

If you’re at all skeptical about this, I understand. You have every right to be.

I’ve seen the garbage that’s being sold out there on the Internet. Most of it is a waste of time for you. In fact, most of the advice out there is simply to manipulate men into giving you something, but in the long run, men will get sick and tired of being used and manipulated that they’ll leave the relationship bitter.

Commitment Control 2 is different. This is the real deal, no B.S. advice, just real and proven strategies to help you inspire your man to take the next step in your relationship.

And of course, shift all the risk on us, (as it should be), and test this entire program out for 30 days. You really have nothing to lose.

You can start module 1 of Commitment Control 2, in the next 10 minutes once you order it.

Again, thank you for taking the time out of your busy day to learn about this. If you have any questions at all, or any problems, you can contact us via our helpdesk. (Click here for the help desk)

We look forward to hearing all the great results you achieve and also look forward to helping you in your love life for years to come!

So regardless of whether you try Commitment Control 2 or not, I wish you the best of luck in your life and relationships for the future.

D. Shen & Renee Wade

Founders of Shen Wade Media

P.S. Time is ticking. What is the real cost of you NOT learning everything we're about to teach you inside of Commitment Control 2? Where will you be in 10 years time without joining us and taking the next step?

Remember, for a small price of $2.19 a day, you can learn step by step how to inspire your chosen man to deeply commit to you without the resistance, withdrawal or heartaches!

P.P.S. Just remember, you will always be protected by our “Raving Fan” Guarantee! Our existing members know it’s a fantastic program, and I want you to think so too. If you’re not a raving fan by the end of the program, then I insist you get your money back and PLUS a $25 Amazon gift card as my way of thanking you for taking that leap of faith with us.

If you're still on the fence about this, why not give us a call? We'll speak to you over the phone to answer any concerns you have! Here's our international number... 1 (646) 679 6626. Or just have a chat to us on Facebook!