Science has shown that a man’s stress levels go through the roof much faster than a womans do, during times of emotional closeness and emotional intimacy. You’re probably familiar with this. Everything was so perfect...everything was going so well, you feel good around him and then he abruptly changes in to this intense and distracted human.
So the one thing you should NEVER say to a man in his moments of pulling away is to give him an ultimatum.
Never say something along the lines of… “If you don’t call me soon then I think it’s over between us.”
“I don’t deserve this. You obviously don’t love me.”
Because unfortunately, it traps him. He will see it as a form of restricting his personal freedom, which to a masculine man, is everything.
His sense of drive and mission is what allows him to show up as a masculine man in your life, and create the passionate polarity with you in the relationship.
It also telegraphs that you don’t truly understand what he needs as a man, as a masculine soul as ultimatums are the worst type of communication to a man!
It’s even worse than trying to chase down a man, which as you probably know would never work. The more you chase, the more “low value” you subconsciously become in his eyes.
(And as a result, the slow death of any attraction in the relationship.)
So what should you do instead?
What should you do so that he is able to come back to you with more love, more appreciation and respect for you as a woman?
What should you do that can make you feel more confident and also allows you to naturally show up as a high value woman in those moments of his withdrawal?
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