What if he’s deeply afraid that you would never understand him as a man?

"Do You Know What Your Man is Thinking and Feeling Right Now that He isn’t Able to Voice?
If You Don’t, How Would You Ever Connect With Him Deeply and Get Through to His Heart?"

You Are About to Have a “Behind The Ropes” View of What Goes On Inside A Man’s Mind, What He Really Wants From You but Can’t Voice, and What Kind Of Woman He Wants You to Be So that He Will Fall In Love With You…


Dear Lovely Friend and Special Soul…

It’s D. Shen & Renee from Shen Wade Media.

I want to start off by saying…

Knowledge is POWER.

The More Knowledge You Have in Men, The More Power You Will Have With Men.

The less knowledge you have in men, the more confusion, more frustration and PAIN you will have with men.

I don’t say this because I want you to feel pain in your life and relationships; I say it because it’s the truth, and I don’t want to keep you from the truth.

The women who get left, who get dumped, who get cheated on, or abused, are the women who understand men THE LEAST.

Now it may sound like I’m defending men here, but I’m not.

These women simply failed to understand what will trigger a man to care, to love, to be faithful, to be loyal and to feel attraction towards them.

As a result, these women get PAIN, they get humiliation, they get low self esteem, confusion and a sense of abandonment.

By the way, this may have already happened to you. (I’m sorry to hear it if it has already happened to you.) And if it hasn’t, guess what? You are not immune unless you read through what I have to tell you…

I want to warn you of this cycle of pain, and help you move away from it.

You see, this cycle of pain happens again and again to women who are beautiful, and women who are average looking, women who are very well educated and intelligent, and women who are less educated.

In fact, the only way to immunize yourself against this, is through having the deep understanding of how a man thinks, feels and behaves. You must understand how the male brain works, what makes him tick and what makes him irritated, what makes him feel desire and what makes him run away.

When you gain this critical understanding, then you will gain the power to influence a man’s thinking, his feelings and decisions.

Remember, knowledge is power. In-depth knowledge in men, means having tremendous power with men. Plus, any man would be over the moon to find a woman who actually “understands” him, as opposed to the hordes of women who have not the first clue about men.


You’re Getting It Wrong, If You Do Any Of These…


Have you ever done something that was seemingly harmless, and then suddenly he has a knee-jerk reaction as if you’d just destroyed everything you ever had with this man?

I know I certainly have in the past, and it feels horrible inside. (You don't need to feel guilty about it.)

And worst of all, I just couldn’t figure out why it happened, and I’m sure you can relate to me here. Perhaps you’ve done something that made a man have a “bad” reaction… For example:

You’ve tried to be “honest with him” by telling him how you feel… (and suddenly he “disappears”?)

You’ve avoided talking to him about big issues like moving in together or marriage…(because you learnt not to tread on dangerous grounds…)

You’ve “tried” to build up your self esteem… (because you don’t feel confident in front of your man or men in general)

You’ve tried to “play it cool” with a man, (and it has… backfired?)

You’ve told him that you are here for him if he wants to open up about any problems.

You’ve tried to solve his emotional problems for him… (This is a very dangerous one indeed!)

You’ve tried to reassure a man by telling him you guys will work it out.

Perhaps you’ve even tried to cut off sex with him.

Look, here’s the cold truth… men react in those situations, not because he hates you or dislikes what he has with you, it’s because men have multiple inherent fears when it comes to women, dating & relationships.

And trust me, these inherent fears are different to your own fears as a woman. So it would be very difficult for you to relate to them, and for most women, they never even start to understand a man’s deepest fears.

You see, men and women are hardwired completely differently. It’s not a rumor, it’s not a myth, it’s a scientifically proven FACT.

When Dr. John Gray wrote his book, “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”, he’s really trying to point out the huge hardwired differences between men and women.

It’s literally like chalk and cheese.

And if you want to have a man love you, adore you and worship you… then you better have a deep and detailed understanding of how a man’s brain works. (And this is what I’m here to help you with)


It’s NOT His Fault…He’s Hardwired To Do It…


Now I’m not defending men for their sometimes erratic behavior, but I do want to make a very strong point here.

Almost everything every man thinks, feels and does is because of his hardwiring, his genetics and his DNA.

He doesn’t leave you because he logically calculates that by leaving you, that gives him the best chance to preserve the relationship.

He just leaves because he’s hardwired to leave when faced with certain emotional triggers, like feeling trapped for example.

He doesn’t call you because he hates talking to you, but because he’s hardwired to be extra stimulated in certain ways over others. (and for most men, they are terrible to talk to over the telephone!)

He looks at the other women on the street, not because he wants the other women necessarily (some men do, so I can’t speak for all of them), but because his male brain is hardwired to react to certain feminine triggers that will almost always capture his attention.

It would be such an understatement to say that if you understand the true hardwiring that every red blooded male has in his DNA, then you will always have success with men in your life no matter how young or old you are, how attractive you think you are, and how terrible your experiences have been with men in the past.

If you have insights into a man’s hardwiring, you have the power to bring him back every time you feel he is leaving the relationship.

If you have insights into a man’s hardwiring, then you will be able to trigger the feelings of attraction and desire in him almost instantly at your command.

If you have insights into a man’s hardwiring, then you will be able to inspire him to be more devoted, more committed and more loyal to you and only you.

And on top of that, you will avoid making the mistakes 99% of other women make when it comes to men. Instead, you will have several men fighting to keep you to themselves.

But on the other side of the coin, if you don’t have these insights into a man’s hardwiring… you will experience a concoction of pain and confusion so strong that it will permanently leave a scar on your emotional wellbeing.

I don’t say that because I want to scare you, I say it because I’ve seen so many vulnerable women go through the unnecessary pain and breakups and ultimately resulting in low self esteem and self worth.

Because here’s what I believe… I believe you’re worth way more than that! I believe you can truly have a man who isn’t just “right” for you, but is deeply attracted to you, adores you and worships you forever.

But you will never get to that place, unless you “understand” him and his male hardwiring. Remember, most of what men think, feel and do is because of his hardwiring, his genetics and his DNA.

The difference between whether he hates you and leaves you or falls in love with you, is almost as simple as WHO you show up to be in his life. He’s simply reacting to you as a woman.

If you show up as a different kind of woman tomorrow, then he will react and be a different kind of man for you!


“He’s Not A JERK, He’s Just A JERK To YOU?!”


Before I continue, I just want to let you know that I’m not here to offend you. That is certainly not my intention.

But sometimes it’s better to have the cold hard truth, rather than the sugar coated lies that we tell ourselves and our girlfriends tell us.

This is something that was SO profound, that when I first heard this, I wrote it down in my notebook straight away. This is one of those “quotes” that I will never forget.

Think about it.

He’s not an JERK, he’s just a JERK to you!

How many times have you seen a man be a total idiot and prick to one woman, and somehow… he literally gets on his knees to try and please another woman! It’s almost like he’s a totally different man in front of the other woman.

You may have experienced this in your own life…A man who is “one way” with you, and completely different in front of another woman?

Maybe he refused to commit to you, was distant, and then after he left you, he married someone else?

Have you ever wondered why?

Have you ever wondered why a man would treat you badly yet treat someone else like a princess?

The truth is, men are not hardwired to be assholes or pricks. They are hardwired to react to how the woman shows up in interactions with him.

So for example if a woman shows up to be “weak”, then he will use her and abuse her. It’s not because he’s trying to be mean and controlling, it’s because of the natural dynamic that’s happening in the relationship.

If that woman suddenly showed up as a high status and high class woman, I guarantee no man would ever use and abuse her again. It’s all about how you show up in the relationship that dictates how you get treated by men.

And the first step is to understand what triggers certain parts of men.

But I really want you to remember, how you show up in your life, is going to translate to how men will treat you again and again. If the same thing happens to you two or more times… you have to have a good look at how you’re showing up as a woman.


The Dangers of Not Understanding Men’s Real Thoughts, Feelings & Blueprint…


If a man doesn’t feel like you understand him at the deepest level… then he would naturally feel distant from you and want to pull away.

Just imagine if a man doesn’t “get” you as a woman. He doesn’t understand what your life is like as a woman. And he doesn’t appreciate or respect you as a woman. In other words, he simply has no idea what makes you tick and what irritates you.

Imagine a man who’s always crossing the line, stepping on your toes, and disrespecting your boundaries of what you are comfortable with.

How would that make you feel inside?

If you’re like me, you’d probably feel intruded upon, perhaps severely disappointed and you would probably just WISH he knew what it’s like being you.

You see, when you don’t understand men at the deepest level, and don’t “get” what makes them tick or irritates them, then they would be secretly disappointed by you.

If you don’t take the time to understand a man’s true blueprint, then you’re setting yourself up to have him lose attraction for you, lose closeness with you, lose the chemistry for you, and lose respect for you.

I’m not suggesting that men will usually be unfaithful when I say this, but a man will find reasons, ways and justifications to pull away from you, leave you, cheat on you and lie to you, when he feels like you don’t “get” him.

Every man wants a woman who really “gets” him, a woman who understands what a man needs and how to give it to him.

In fact, in all my years helping women, I’ve noticed that the happiest and most committed men in relationships are the men who are with a woman who “gets” him. She understands. And with that understanding, he will feel respected and appreciated.

A man who feels respected and appreciated, is not a man who would leave a relationship and abandon the woman.

So I truly believe that if you ever want a man to adore you, worship you, treat you like you’re the only woman on Earth, then you have to understand how men think, feel and behave.

And when you do, he will trust you. He will commit to you. He will want you to be the only woman for him.
This understanding that we’re talking about is not an option, it’s not a priority, it is a MUST.

Let Me Ask You Something Important...

Do you want to continue making irreparable mistakes with men and continue to pay the price?

Do you want to be caught up again and again in a man’s defense mechanism and eventually get nowhere with him… only to lose his attention and affection?

Or would you love to have total control and hypnotic influence with every man you meet by knowing exactly what he wants and needs, even better than he knows himself?

In other words, do you want to be a woman that NO man gets along with? Or would you love to be the woman no man can live WITHOUT?

The choice is yours. If you want to continue this journey… then please read on…


Give Me 14 Days and You’ll Be Able to Read Men like An Open Book, Attract Them at Will, and Have Them Wrapped Around Your Little Finger


My man D. Shen and I have taken hundreds of hours, spend thousands of our own dollars learning and putting together the best home study membership program of its kind, so that you can immediately gain the knowledge in men that you need to succeed in dating and relationships.

I know that there are hundreds of books and DVD programs already on this topic. Some are good, some are not. Some work, some don’t, and the rest are completely rubbish.

You see, I don’t want you to have to go through all pain of trial and error, going from one program to another hoping to find that key insight that would make all the difference in your love life.

I’ve personally done all of that for you.

I’ve been to those high end exclusive seminars where they charge $6000 per ticket to learn advanced concepts & strategies in dating & relationships.

I’ve read those books that have hit the number 1 best selling list.

I’ve watched those DVDs and listened to audio tape programs.

What I’ve done is that I’ve compressed years and years of learning, into a 14 day program for you. It is called “Understanding Men”. It is designed to give you years and years of knowledge, insights, and secrets into men all within 2 weeks.

This is not a program of “try this and try that”. This is a program of solutions, answers and results.

This whole program was put together by both myself and my man D. Shen, and we personally teach all of it to you.

If you’ve been following my work, then you’d know the invaluable contribution my man D. Shen has made to my programs and my coaching. Not only is he able to contribute a man’s point of view to this whole program, he is also a leader in this field when it comes to dating and relationship coaching.

I think you’ll love his input and you will soon become a fan of what he has to share.


A small glimpse into the mind of a man...


Module 1 - Laying Down the Foundations About Men

  • We will start by sharing with you the 10 most advanced and profound insights into men and how they are built to be different to women. (If you only just watched one video, make sure it’s this video. This alone will open your eyes to the world of men, and change the way men interact with you on a daily basis.)

  • You will learn the exact triggers that would instantly make 90% of all men run, withdraw, disappear, and leave even if you thought things were going well with him. (And of course we’ll show you what you should be doing instead!)

  • You’ll discover the most powerful exercise to do right now, in order to “wake you up” from the confusion and frustration you’ve had with men.

  • You’ll learn how men are actually physically, biochemically and psychologically hardwired to be like “aliens” to us women. (And how you need to “look” at men in order for him to feel connected to you)

  • You’ll discover a man’s true intentions with you, regardless of how he’s acting with you right now. (This insight itself will shatter your old paradigm about men, and instil a new one that men will love you for!)

  • We’re also going to talk about how your history with men, has shaped and affected the way you interpret a man’s behavior and has shaped the filter in which you see men through.

  • We’re going to give you an exercise to dig out the root cause of why you’ve had those issues with men in the past, and make it vanish instantly.

Module 2 – Inside A Masculine Hunter’s Mind

  • You’ll learn what the masculine brain is hardwired to be attracted to, and it’s usually not what we women think it is. (Testosterone changes and shapes a man’s brain very differently to a woman’s brain, so stop trying to analyze his behavior using your feminine instincts!)

  • You’ll discover why a man may not call you back or get back to you for hours if not days. (And it’s not usually because he didn’t want to, but because he’s operating through a masculine filter.)

  • You’ll learn why it stimulates a man’s mind and body to continue on the hunt, and continue the pursuit, but once it’s over, he loses his internal drive and motivation. (This is critical to understand if you’ve ever felt like a man had stopped pursuing you and taken you for granted.)

  • You’ll learn the 3 things that every masculine hunter looks for in a woman. (And if you can figure out what these 3 things are… then I guarantee that men will see you as a “perfect catch”.)

  • You’ll learn what true femininity is, and how to exude your own natural feminine essence to lure and attract men without looking like you’re trying at all.

  • You’ll discover the simple 5 word phrase you must say before speaking to your man, in order to get past his masculine defense and get him to listen, connect and appreciate you as a woman. (It’s all about communicate to him in his own language!)

Module 3 – The Modern Man’s Greatest Desires & Fears

  • You’ll discover how this masculine hunter brain has evolved to operate in this twenty first century world where we now have Facebook, internet dating sites and contraception. (These new inventions have really shifted and altered the rules of the interactions between men and women, so if you don’t stay up to date and understand how it works today, you will be left behind!)

  • You will learn one of the greatest insights about men… which is their greatest desires and fears. (If you don’t know what drives a man on the inside, then you will never be able to figure out why he acts the way he does on the outside, and after learning this, you will know things about him that even he doesn’t know about himself.)

  • You’ll be able to see inside of what goes on in a man’s brain, and why he thinks, feels and behaves the way he does! (And if you were to ever meet a man’s needs, you need to know what is going on INSIDE of him)

  • You’ll learn the key differences between an emotionally mature & responsible man vs a man who is immature, irresponsible and will not take you seriously.

  • Discover the ONE Lethal thing to NEVER do in your relationship with a man, and if you do, it literally spells the END for you two. (We all know that men have sensitive egos and aren’t as emotionally fit as us women are. This is one thing you never want to do in your relationship to hurt his ego!)

  • Do you know what the sexiest thing to every single red blooded man is? You will certainly find out! (And no, it’s not your body, or your face, it’s not anything remotely sexual… yet every single man is a sucker for this!)

Module 4 – Men & Dating: How to Attract The Right Man?

  • Do you know what are the key things that an emotionally mature man looks for in a woman? If you don’t, you will lose him to another woman who knows and appreciates those key things. (There are approximately 50 million single women in the US alone, who are more than happy to compete with you)

  • You will be getting inside the shoes of a man and discover why the dating scene is actually really scary and intimidating from a man’s eyes. (And why it’s important that you put a man at ease before you can get to know him)

  • You’ll learn the 4 most dangerous dating mistakes that women are making over and over, that are killing their chances with any decent man they meet. (Men will literally lose any desire for you and run the other way, and most women don’t even realize.)

  • Do you know what the number 1 rule to follow when it comes to dating? This rule is critical for you to follow in dating, yet rather useless when you get into a committed relationship. (This single rule will automatically give men the impression that you are a highly desirable, highly sought after woman, and make them chase you like you are the prize!)

  • You’ll learn the important skill of attracting the right types of men, and naturally repelling those jerks, weirdos, losers, psychos and crazies! (I’ve seen this again and again, women attracting men who are just not right for them… only for the woman to discover way too late!)

  • You’ll discover what to say and more importantly, what NOT to say to a man to instantly capture his attention, get him to care for you even if he wasn’t attracted to you in the first place.

  • Learn the real reason behind why men chase you, and then loses interest after he “gets” you. (This has everything to do with a man’s hardwiring and blueprint and nothing to do with you. I’m also going to show you how to avoid this common trap women get themselves into.)

Module 5 – Getting Past a Man’s Commitment Resistance

  • You’ll learn why over 80% of men are deathly afraid of actually building a real committed relationship, and how you can easily inspire him to commit by giving him this ONE simple thing. (And NO, it’s not sex… it’s not your love, it’s not even close…)

  • Discover how to turn the emotional unavailable man, into a deeply committed and loyal lover. (This is all about knowing a man’s emotional hot buttons, and pushing them at the right times.)

  • Discover how to connect deeply with your man’s heart and soul, and make him feel like he has known you forever. (and as a result, you become the only indispensable woman in his life.)

  • You’ll discover why every masculine man has to have commitment resistance and how you can easily maneuver around it by caring for his needs first. (Believe it or not, most men actually WANT a deeply committed relationship to one woman, but they usually need a woman to help set that up!)

  • We’ll show you what freedom looks like to a man, and how you can give this golden treasure to a man without having him feel disconnected to you!

  • You’ll discover why men are so selfish no matter how much you have given YOURSELF to the relationship. (And better still, use a couple of the clever little strategies I’ll teach you to get him to give back to you.)

  • You’ll learn the 5 step process we’ve designed to help you inspire emotional commitment from your man no matter how distant he’s been in the past.

Module 6 – Opening A Man Up in A Relationship

  • You’ll learn how to overcome those challenges that comes up in a relationship that prevent you from being close to your man and vice versa. (Do you know what kills intimacy faster than you can say the word “go”?)

  • How do you open a man up when he’s withdrawn, pulled away and disappeared?

  • How do you make him feel more attracted to you in a long term relationship and prevent him from looking elsewhere?

  • You’ll get an internal perspective of what men really want from a long term relationship, and how this may differ to what women want in a relationship. (I’m not talking about the obvious answers, but the things he doesn’t tell you because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or lose your love.)

  • You’ll learn the 4 key things all men want and need in a long term committed relationship in order to be satisfied and happy.

  • You’ll learn the psychology behind why some men want an open relationship, and how destructive that would be for a woman… (remember this, men settle for open relationships when they haven’t found the “right” woman to be fully exclusively committed to yet!)

  • You’ll learn the subconscious things that you’re doing right now that’s pushing him away. (Nothing is worse than getting taken for granted. And nothing will kill your chances of a committed relationship than being a low value woman)

Module 7 – Men, Sex, Cheating & Monogamy

  • You’ll discover some hot answers to these common yet important questions you may have… Does he want to have sex with other women? Will he cheat on me? Is monogamy what he actually wants? Or would he prefer to have an “open” relationship?

  • You’ll learn the scientific research behind whether men are NATURALLY monogamous or not? (Let me give you a hint… the short answer is no, but the long answer is yes!)

  • You’ll discover why most men hate the idea of monogamy… and how you can painlessly inspire him to be exclusive with you and only you. (If you ever want a man to yourself, then you owe it to yourself to understand this important concept.)

  • You’ll learn what sex really means to a man, the secrets that men know from a young age that women never find out about. (We all know sex is important to a man, but do you know what the real value of sex is to a man?)

  • Learn the dual mating strategies that every male has inherited in his DNA and how that affects his faithfulness to you. (This is truly advanced material, and I want you to take your time going through this…)

  • You’ll discover the only way to prevent him from cheating on you and leaving you. This isn’t any kind of hype, this is the real deal. It’s not about sending just a simple text message to you man, so if you’re in the market for that, this is not for you. These are advanced concepts and advanced training and not for the faint hearted.

  • Easy to Follow Video Training

    All of our coaching videos are super easy to follow and understand.

  • Secure Membership Area

    You will get secure access to the membership area for our exclusive content.

  • Total 7 Modules Over 14 Days

    Strategic sequencing of content means less overwhelm for you and reaching clarity quicker.

  • Profound Insight Exercises

    Printout exercises after video training help you to have profound breakthroughs with men.

  • Anywhere Access

    Because it’s all hosted in our members area, you will be able to gain access regardsless where in the world you are.

  • Lifetime Upgrades

    Once you become a members, you will get access forever and all the upgrades and updates we release in the future.

  • iPhone and iPad Friendly

    All our videos, audios and PDFs are designed to be compatible wiht iPhones and iPads.

  • Outstanding Customer Support

    If anything goes wrong, or if you just have a question, we will make sure you are looked after!


Video Modules, Audio MP3s, Transcriptions, and Exercise Handouts...


Understanding Men is a 14 day coaching program. It is divided into 7 separate modules that are designed to be easy to digest for you.

All of these modules are held within our Understanding Men EXCLUSIVE membership area. And all these modules contain a number of videos, audios and downloadable handouts.

When you sign up to Understanding Men, you will get your unique login details, and be taken to our secret membership area. There, you will have immediate access to the introduction and first module.

You will NOT be given access to the whole program when you sign up. We’ve designed it this way so that you wouldn’t be overwhelmed with the sheer amount of information. You see, overwhelm doesn’t do you any good when you’re learning something new. So I’ve taken the liberty to sort it all out into a logical order, and deliver it all to you in bite-sized chunks.

Therefore you will only be given the first week’s content at the time you sign up. Then 2 days after, (on day 3) you will receive the second module of Understanding Men.

I will personally send you emails letting you know when to log into your membership area for the next series of videos and content.

Here is how the complete program is formatted.

Understanding Men is primarily a video based program. Every module, several videos are released and you’re welcome to either watch these videos in our membership area, or download them and watch them at your leisure. We have found that this is the best way to consume and digest the content.

These videos are also converted into MP3 audio files, so that you can download them and put onto your MP3 player to listen on the go. These MP3 audio files accompany every single video and are included in the members area free of charge.

Also, there are handouts in the form of PDF downloads. These handouts summarize the video content and give you the information in a concise and easy to digest way.

Lastly, every video is meticulously transcribed, so if you prefer to read over watching videos or listening to audio, then you can download these transcriptions underneath every single video and read at your own pace.

So as you can probably tell, I took more time than necessary to make sure the whole course is prepared in a way that you can digest the information regardless of your learning style.

But get this…

When you register, you instantly become a LIFE TIME MEMBER of Understanding Men. This means that you will receive any updates and future videos/articles that we post up in Understanding Men.

This is just another gesture to let you know that I care about all the women who come onto my site and I want to make sure that they receive the best information, best advice and knowledge in the world on dating, men and relationships.


Is This the Education That Every Woman Need?


Actually this is a comment from one of our members of Understanding Men.

After she went through this home study program, she sent me an email telling me how this should be compulsory learning for all women at a young age.

She followed by telling me about her negative experiences with men in the past and wishing how she learned about this 22 years ago.

That’s 22 years of pain and agony, because of the lack of education and understanding.

Remember, knowledge is power. Knowledge in men, is your power with men.

So just take a moment to imagine this…

You walk into a room and all the men turn around to admire your radiance and beauty.

Successful men coming up to you to “get to know more about you”.

You can see through men as if they were transparent pieces of paper, reading them like an open book.

You can pick up instantly what men want from you, whether a man is emotionally mature or not, whether he’s responsible or not.

Imagine yourself, as the woman every man wants, and the woman every other woman wants to be.

You have no worries about your options with men, because you know what men are hardwired to be attracted to and you know that you are the woman that men adore.

Men adore you because you “get” them. You understand them far deeper than any other woman out there.

You no longer question where your relationship is going… now you have assurance, certainty and have a plan for the future.

Imagine the warmth of assurance, the comfort of knowing that you are NOT wasting your time, and that your energy, youth and time is NOT being wasted.

Imagine never having any regrets about your love life, knowing that you’re always making the right choices and decisions.

All of this comes from your understanding of how MEN think, feel and behave.

Think about it for a moment…what is all that worth to you?

What is this compulsory education worth to you, as a woman?

And truly, what is it really going to cost you, if you don’t handle this part of your life right now?

Hopefully you don’t put a price tag on your radiance, on your attractiveness to men, on the quality of your interactions and relationships with men, and most importantly, on the most precious thing we all have which is our time.

Don’t spend 22 years of your life with regret and shame and realize afterwards that you should have been prepared and educated first. Your life is way more precious than that.


So... what is the Investment?


A semester at a respected college or university will set you back many thousands of dollars. Would you invest thousands of dollars for your own kids to have a proper education?

Would you invest thousands of dollars for yourself (like we have) to have a world class education in THE MOST IMPORTANT area of life… your intimate relationships with men?

Well, thankfully, our program Understanding Men won’t cost you even a fraction of that.

Let me put this another way for you…

Would you pay just $19.70 per hour for someone like... perhaps Dr Phil, or Dr. John Gray to help personally coach you and advise you in your love life?

What about would you pay just $19.70 per hour for the best advice and coaching on men, dating and relationships from myself and my man, D. Shen?

For us to do all the research, filtering out all the bad and useless stuff, figuring out the best quality concepts and exercises and for us to personally teach it to you, would it be worth to you just $19.70 per hour?

By the way, we’ve charged upward of $3500 per month for our private clients, just to give you a comparison.

Well, because that’s how much it works out to be, there’s about 10 hours worth of content in this program

Understanding Men, and it all works out to be just under $20 per hour.

That’s under $20 per hour to access world class learning, coaching and education taught straight from us.

So for just two payment of $99, you will get full access and life time membership to our Understanding Men program.

You will get every single video in the series, all the audio Mp3 downloads, all the meticulously transcribed notes and the worksheets. All of this will be available to you in the member’s area.

And of course, in the many years that I’ve been helping women online, I’ve never allowed anyone to walk around claiming that they’ve wasted their money with me, and I’m not about to start.

You will always be protected by my 30 Day “Raving Fan” Guarantee.

Simply try the whole thing out, and at the end of it, I want you to ask yourself… “Have I experienced everything Renee promised to me? Am I a raving fan of this program?”

Now I cannot predict your answer, only you can. But if the answer is not an absolute resounding “HELL YES!”, then I want you to ask for a refund.

You know me, I don’t like to mess around.

So if you decide for any reason at all, (or for no particular reason at all,) that this is not for you, then just ask for a refund.

You can do this via email, our help desk or even call in. I don’t care how you do it, you just have to let me know! We will immediately give you a full refund and you can keep all the knowledge, all the education that you’ve received, just as a way for me to thank you for taking the time.


Don’t Decide Now… Try It First & Then Let Me Know...


Look, I totally understand the frustration and confusion you may have with men, especially the ones you have a personal interest in.

The problem of course, is that us women know that time is ticking, and we aren’t getting any younger by the minute.

So I am certainly NOT going to waste your time!

If you don’t master this critical understanding of men, you will never have the dream relationship or dream man you want. It will always just be a dream.

In fact, you will struggle to even find a “barely satisfactory” relationship in this day and age.

So here’s the deal…

I am confident that at the end of this 14 day program, you will have the knowledge, the confidence, and the skills to meet and keep the man of your dreams, the man who will worship you forever.

You will know exactly what turns him on and what doesn’t. What makes him feel emotionally connected and close to you and only you. What makes him feel like he’s in love with you and would even die for you!

You’ll know exactly how to communicate to him in a way that he will understand and appreciate.

And if you don’t experience what I’m describing to you…

Just ask for a refund!

In the many years I have been doing this, I have never allowed anyone to walk around claiming that they’ve wasted their money with me, and I’m not about to start.

This is like going to your favorite restaurant, ordering your favorite meal and if you don’t like the taste of it, then you can walk out without paying. This is probably the best, most RISK FREE deal you’ve ever seen.


All the risk is on us, and I’m totally cool with that!


Is Understanding Men the right program for me?


By now you probably already know in your gut whether Understanding Men is right for you.

But just in case you’re still not sure, then remember, this program is certainly NOT for you if… If you don’t care about your love life and you don’t care if men find you attractive or not.

If you don’t honestly want attention from men, and want to live your own life as a single woman. (There’s really nothing wrong with this by the way)

If you are already in that deeply committed and deeply passionate relationship where there’s nothing that can come between you and your man. Where your man actively worships you and expresses love for you like there’s no tomorrow.

On the other hand, if you’re want more love and attraction from your man,

want a relationship that others envy, then I would totally suggest that you get started with Understanding Men today.

After all, time is ticking.

Us women are not getting any younger by the minute. If you’re at all confused and frustrated with the men in your life, then you have to be aware of the serious consequences it’s having on your life.

It is wasting your time, wasting your life, wasting your youthfulness, wasting your precious reproductive value. And worst of all, it’s wasting your opportunity of actually having a man who worships you and adores you. Understanding Men is, without a doubt, the best program of its kind, hands down.

After all, power comes from knowledge. Your power with men, will come from your knowledge in men. This is your journey, let’s take the next step together.


Still Not Sure?


If you’re at all skeptical about this, I understand.

You have every right to be.

I’ve seen the garbage that’s being sold out there on the Internet. – Most of it is pure rubbish. In fact, most of the advice out there is simply to manipulate men into giving you something, but in the long run, men will get sick and tired of being used and manipulated that they’ll leave the relationship bitter.

Understanding Men is different. This is the real deal, no B.S. advice, just real and proven strategies to give you the real inside details and understanding on men, dating & relationships.

And of course, all the risk on me, (as it should be). I’ve had thousands of customers since I’ve been helping women online and I’ve never let anyone walk around claiming they’ve wasted their money with me. Test this program out COMPLETELY.

You really have nothing to lose.

Again, thank you for taking the time out of your busy day to learn about this. If you have any questions at all, or any problems, you can contact me via my help desk.

I look forward to hearing all the great news in your love life and also look forward to helping you in your love life for years to come! Remember... You deserve love!

Lots of love to you!

Both Polariods

Renee Wade & D. Shen

Founders of Shen Wade Media

P.S.  I truly want you to know that I believe you can attract and keep a man who adores you, worships you and would die for you. You have that power inside of yourself. You’ve always had it. It’s time to have you tap into that infinite resource inside of you.

P.P.S. Just remember, you will always be protected by my “Raving Fan” guarantee! I know Understanding Men is the best program of its kind, and I want you to think so too. If I haven’t converted you into a raving fan by the end of the program, just ask me for a refund. I insist on it. If you have any questions at all… don’t hesitate to let us know!


Our Members Love the Program, You Probably Will Too...


I've been telling all of my friends about your site. It has completely transformed my broken relationship with my soul mate and we are better than ever now. Therefore, you’re kind of saving my life. Thank you so much. You’re amazing.


I have to say a big thank you to you two and how grateful I am and in many ways fortunate that I came across you and your website!

You have been inspiring and hopeful for me. Not only do you educate me and take me out of the darkness but you also helped me find a new way of thinking. A way to adopt a new attitude and make change in my life.

You have empowered me in more ways that I thought possible, not only in how I have started to interact with males but with all people I interact.

That thing that empowered me so much was those few words that you wrote and they were ‘I am more than enough’

Those words had an immediate effect on me, it’s like as I read them and took my next breath they became apart of me and then it occurred to me how many times I have felt not enough and I did the worst thing ever by trying and trying and then trying even harder and ending up nowhere. Feeling like I am more than enough takes away all the pressure of having to do or having to be and allows me to ‘just be’.

Thank you so very much Renee. I have to be honest with you I have others that I receive help from in this field and you are by far the most resourceful and most giving of all.

Thank you so very much and I hope my energy of gratitude reaches your Being.

Thank you


Wow this was such an eye opener!

I never realized that this could be damaging to my relations with men until I read this. I stepped back and really thought about it for a while and all the moments my guy pulled away just clicked!

You are really opening my eyes to things I never would have guessed. And every single piece of advice you give, I try out, and it has all worked! I have told tons of my girlfriends about your blog and I'm sure they will get the same results as me. Again, a big thanks for what you do!

P.S. I want to do another one of your programs, but I am a broke college student and will have to wait before I can do them all.

Best Wishes,


Mary Gracie

Dear Renee... Im sure this work keeps you really busy on line...but i must share my positive feedback with you, as i am a busy woman like anyone else I am doing the program slowly...

I'm only up to module 3 or 4 and you have sent all of them......but wow....renee....I couldn't believe it... today when i received a thank you card from my man telling me I am his soulmate body/mind/and spirit..

This is a gobsmacking success!

I am on a healing journey eating raw foods and drinking green juices, I am not living with my partner at this time, and we have had many troubles due to his alcoholism.

He has been attending AA 4 times a week and has been alcohol and drug free for 2 months and things are improving greatly. My journey is inspiring his journey and vice versa.

I have been VERY CONSCIOUSLY working with the tools so far given and yes they work...I am so grateful that my awareness is expanding. I am a more gentle person for it and getting ALOT more of what i want and desire. I feel much more attractive and conscious. looking forward to using all the tools yet to come in your fantastic programme.

Oh, and the first questionnaire asked which celebrity couple i like and i couldn't answer...but now i tell you its easy...BEYONCE and J ZEE.......soul mates spiritually aware and longtime committed. Happy new year and love and light and friendship extended back to you.

Love Rachel


I want to let you know that your emails have really helped me to understand men so much better.

For the last five years, it has been my mission to learn as much about attracting and keeping men as I possibly can. Back in 2008, after a string of bad relationships, I began reading anything I could get my hands on that pertained to Male Psychology.

I wanted to know everything about men, attracting and keeping them, what men want, etc, etc. I read books by different people, male or female, about how to be the kind of woman that make men swoon and what I learned finally paid off when I met Michael, my late husband.

Sadly, he passed away a year and a half ago and we weren't married long when he died. But what time we spent together was such a blessing and he was so good to me. He always put me first, he treated me like a lady, put me on a pedestal and he worked hard to make a life for the both of us.

And I feel like none of that would've been possible if it weren't for people like you. You are a blessing, Renee. Keep doing what you are doing. A lot of women can learn from you. And I thoroughly enjoy reading your emails.

Thank you so much.


Hi Renee,

It's been over a year now since Sean and I have met, things are going well. Your programme helped me to understand the balance between male and female and how to use it to become a better person for me and my family.

Thanks for helping me see the man of my dreams who i would have probably rejected in the past. It was not easy in the beginning but now we can't help but feel united with each other and have love, support and admiration towards one another, something that is totally new to us.

This is a picture taken in Cuba on our anniversary, it wasn't planned as such as we went there for five weeks during the winter, I'm also living with Sean and know his family. When i first met him i felt engaged or taken, after a year now i feel married, his friends at work ask him how "the wifey" is wink wink!

I also feel like there are kids coming in the way, none of this was planned or even in my head, I guess Sean's not feeling the pressure, which gave him space to be himself and not feel threatened.

Take care and i look forward to hearing from you and your work.

Lots of love


Renee and David,

Thank you soooo much for this program. Not only has it allowed me to understand what went wrong in past relationships (my fault), it has allowed me to let myself be vulnerable with my new man and see his fears and help allay them. I know that we would already have broken up if not for this program. It came into my life at just the time I needed it!

And now, even when he shuts down and wants to run, I don’t get scared and I know how to handle it. And he has come back every single time! So, thank you not only for saving my present relationship, but for all the happiness I will have in the future thanks to you both.



Hi Renee

I am not a “paying subscriber” to your programs as I am not in a financial position to afford them but I can tell you that just being a subscriber to your blog posts has changed my whole perspective on Men and how to find and keep my very own Prince.

And after kissing many frogs…I can finally say that I have put your advice into action…taken a step back and tried to understand “love" from my mans perspective and voila – I now have an incredibly committed man who I know is so in love with me at the deepest level possible and it feels absolutely incredible!

I would love to have done your understanding men program etc…maybe it wouldn’t have taken me so long but I just wanted to say a huge thank you for giving some of your advice out for free too – I’m sure there are many women out there who you are helping enormously.

Keep it up – you definitely know what you are talking about!

Many thanks

Natalie G

…I cannot tell you what a relief it is to finally have clarity & peace of mind! I have much respect for you as a woman.

I feel like saying “thank you” is such an injustice but I don’t know what else I could possibly say to show my gratitude. You have amazing insight & without a doubt yours is the best site I have come across.

Thank You!!


Dear Renee,

After reading lots of your e-mails and reading a few of your books, my love life has changed drastically (that's an understatement). I'm proud to say that I finally understand men. I understand that I must be a high-value woman in order to draw in the right man who will commit to me.

Days after I had this break-through, Mr. Right just... appeared! And I even had random men approach me and notice me... which NEVER used to happen. Not to mention the bitter, man-bashing women in my life began to grow very jealous and resentful of me and my new found positivity/compassion towards men. Let's just say I now only surround myself with positive women who are very appreciative of the men in their lives.

The current relationship I'm in is unlike any others I have been in (and I have been in way too many terrible ones). This man worships the ground I walk on and does the most romantic things for me every single day. We have an intense connection and are ridiculously attracted to one another. Not once do I feel compelled to act out of a place of desperation with him. When he pulls away, I no longer see it in a negative light. I support his me-time, guys' night time, etc. and simply let him be. Even if I don't hear from him for hours or even an entire day, I feel no sense of worry or dread. Instead I do great things for myself and focus on my hobbies. When we do see each other again, our attraction/connection is even more mind-blowing. It makes me happy to know that he has his life and I have my own, but we can share our lives too. This sort of respect isn't something I've experienced before.

He keeps on telling me that he never thought a woman could actually get him... he literally thinks I'm a different species of woman! My fears of getting cheated on, mistreated, etc. obliterated. My extremely negative misconceptions of men don't taunt me anymore either.

However, there is no way I can take full credit for this remarkable transformation. You, Renee, opened my eyes wide. The information you share is *extremely* valuable even if some of it isn't exactly easy to hear. Every woman should know about you and the amazing wisdom you have to offer. All these informative messages have been a true blessing to me. Thank you a million times!




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