A man will either invest everything in you or just enough to keep you around… Which one are you?

“Discover the 5 Secrets to Having Your Chosen Man Fall in Love with You & Beg You to Be His One & Only, Even If He’s Been Distant, Avoidant, or Losing Interest…”

(This is perhaps the most important & transformational distinction about men that every woman needs to understand.) 

Important Details...

Presenter: Renee Wade
Course Length: 4 Hours 
Course Format: Video Lessons
Access: Life Time

Re: Being his one and only...

I want to share with you something very important.

In order for you to get the love, investment and commitment from a quality man, it is absolutely imperative that you become his “One & Only” woman.

Keep reading and allow me to show you exactly how to do that…

By the way, my name is Renee and I'm the founder of TheFeminineWoman.com and co founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach you how to show up as a high value woman and easily inspire a deep sense of emotional commitment from men.

It has been nearly a decade that I've been teaching women in the areas of love and relationships. And in that time, I've had the privilege of really seeing every kind of problem you could possibly imagine.

From recently divorced 50 year old women not knowing how to navigate the world as a single woman, to women of any age wanting marriage and a deeper commitment - but getting that commitment seems worse than pulling teeth as they try to overcome their man's commitment resistance.

From helping women deal with men who are addicted to alcohol, drugs or even video games, to helping women who had been raped and abused - finally learn to trust and open up emotionally again.

I've had over 10 million women read my articles and be a part of our programs. And the most common issues that women have, no matter what background, what age or social status, it always comes down to one thing. 

Getting a true emotional commitment from a man! 

I’m guessing that you're just like me in that you know exactly what it feels like to have your man resist and reject any forms of deeper commitment to you. It can be incredibly painful, and that pain is completely justified!

If you are truly feminine in your soul, then this must be true...

If you’re like me and that you feel truly feminine at your core, then relationships are the most important aspect of your life - bar none.

Because nothing truly affects you as deeply as the emotions you experience in your everyday relationships.

Because ultimately, love and relationships are the center of gravity for feminine women like you and I, and I don't EVER want you to ignore them.

If our relationships are bad, we feel bad.

…And so it has been my mission for the last decade (plus) to help offer the proper education and empowerment that every woman needs in the most important area of her life - intimate relationships.

There’s a big problem I see in today’s world.

We as a society lack the proper education and knowledge when it comes to love, attraction and intimate relationships. (Nope, advice columns in gossip magazines don’t count as true knowledge, but rather more like junk food for the mind.)

As a result, truly committed relationships are far and few in between.

So where do we go to learn about attraction and commitment? About men and their masculine perspectives? About how differently they perceive love, sex and long term relationships?

Where do we go to learn about how to add value to men in a way that makes falling in love, and the whole commitment process easy and smooth?

The answer is mostly… Nowhere!

We don’t learn any of this at school or even the top universities in the world. (But don’t you think these are important things to know?)

Imagine being the woman that men love to break up with... and then to turn it all around and inspire a true love & commitment worthy of a fairytale!

This is exactly what happened to one of our members who just shared a recent update. (Hint: she just got engaged!)

Listen to what she said... "It's happening!!! I learned how to be a real woman through Renee and David and I got me a real man!" (...And check out all those emojis!)

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But this isn't really that impressive because thousands of people become engaged every single day. What IS amazing about this lady's progress, is that she was always an insecurely attached woman! All her past boyfriends kept breaking up with her due to her emotional volatility, and that is in her own words too!

So, considering her background, this is absolutely amazing news. It really shows that you can attract love and a deep commitment regardless of how "broken" or even unworthy you feel right now.

...And you know what? I'm so happy for her. I think we should all congratulate her. Not for her sake but for your own sake, so that you can acknowledge that part of yourself that deserves love passion and commitment.

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Is this lady's results TYPICAL when you follow my advice and teachings?

Of course not. I can't promise your Mr. Right will show up suddenly and sweep you off your feet just because you came to my website.

Most women will never take the responsibility to take it upon themselves to evolve, to grow, to become more.

The women who love to blame men will probably continue blaming men. The women who love to victimise themselves will continue to do that.

But that ain't you, right?

I can promise you that if you take it upon yourself to learn, to grow and to fully embody the woman that you truly are, then you will no doubt have amazing results in your own life, just like this lady did.

I have no doubt that if you give yourself the space to learn the details of what it takes to become a man's "One and Only" (like I'm about to teach you), then you will inevitably attract an absolute abundance of love, attraction and commitment into your life.

True emotional commitment means different things to masculine men.

See here’s what you have to understand…

As women, we naturally gravitate towards a committed relationship because that is what comes intuitive to us. We are the baby bearers and therefore our bodies, our emotions, and our spirit require a deep sense of secure attachment and commitment.

Men on the other hand, don’t often see commitment the same way. They don’t have a… womb!

So the idea of commitment doesn’t come naturally to men as it does for us women. We get commitment. Men don’t.

Think about it this way…

What do women talk about growing up as teenagers? Relationships of course! We love gossiping about relationships. (There’s nothing wrong with that at all.)

What about guys? What do men talk about growing up?

Well, the answer is certainly not about relationships, but rather competitions, proving their capabilities and their resourcefulness.

In fact, unless a man has had the influence of a great woman, he would never really become fluent in the language of a relationship.

It’s just not his domain. (And that’s perfectly OK!)

This is why you see men of ANY age, (incredibly smart men who know how to fix almost anything) but having little to no skill when it comes to relationships.

So what does this mean for you? It means that the intuitive emotional commitment that you yearn for in a relationship can sometimes be a foreign counterintuitive notion to a man, especially a masculine man.

Men don’t automatically gravitate towards commitment. Rather, they need to be emotionally inspired to commit their energy, emotions and resources to one woman.

Truth: Every single man will automatically put you in either one of these two baskets…

Both men and women have what scientists would call “dual mating strategies” when it comes to passing on their genes.

For a man, he is always looking to put you in one of two potential baskets. (This process is actually very automatic and subconscious, meaning he doesn’t have to consciously realise it for it to occur.)

You as a woman become either his “one of many” type of woman, or his “One & Only” woman.

…And as you can imagine, how he treats women in those two baskets are drastically different.

Men will almost never emotionally commit to the women they perceive as their “one of many”. (These women are therefore seen as more so “disposable” women.)

This isn’t because of some underlying conspiracy of men being misogynistic…

Every man has this “dual mating strategy” simply because this appropriately conserves his resources for when it really matters.

So the result being - you will never get his emotional commitment if you don't become his one and only type of woman...

...And if you don't become your man's one and only, then he will always have his defences up, and exhibit incredible commitment resistance. (As if you’re fighting a losing battle.)

Because men intuitively reserve all of their energy, time, and resources for the woman he perceives as his one and only.

And that is true of men in every culture, every socioeconomic level and every background.

A man will either invest everything in you or just enough to keep you around.

Sounds harsh I know, but that’s the reality.

You either get it all, or get basically nothing.

You either have true love or you have nothing at all.

That is simply how men invest in the women in their life. Look at Tiger Woods as a prime example. He had his wife in which he spent most of his resources on…

…And of course as we all found out, he had a buffet of “other” women whom he did just enough to keep them around. (I remember one interview back when his cheating was all over the news that some of the ‘other” women revealed they never received any money or other type of resource from him.)

The point is, a man will either invest everything in you or just enough to keep you around. How a man treats his “One & Only” versus his one of many is like night & day.

Don’t trust what he says or promises; men don’t commit to their “one of many”…

You know it, I know it. Words are cheap. Even promises can be cheap.

Just because he promises to commit or says he’s committing doesn’t make it so. Don’t be fooled.

Us women, we have a tendency sometimes to get sucked in by sweet words and sweet promises. But those words can often be incongruent to his actions and habits.

Here’s another thing that sometimes tricks us as women… Don’t confuse having his emotional commitment to being in a relationship with him.

Don’t confuse having his emotional commitment to even being married to him.

A man could marry out of pressure but all the while still seeing the woman as his “one of many”.  (Trust me, it happens more than you think!)

…And look, plenty of men “stay” in a relationship that is convenient and suddenly one day out of the blue dumps that woman for apparently no reason at all.

That is a telltale sign of being a “one of many” type of woman. He did just enough to keep you hanging around, until he didn’t need you anymore.

You might be wondering… why keep these women around? Why not just break up with them?

Great question. See, from a man’s perspective, having a woman around is a resource to hold onto. It usually means somewhat convenient sex. (…And to men who produce 300 million sperm a day, that’s a good resource to have around.)

So sometimes it’s easy to feel safe and secure having a “relationship”, but remember there’s a huge difference between being a man’s true “One & Only”, to having the status of a “relationship” with him.

Triggering the biological mechanism for men to fall in love and form a pair bond...

Look, here’s the good news.

Becoming your chosen man’s one and only can be quite an relatively simple process… if you just knew how, if you just knew what triggers a man to see a woman as “One & Only” material…

Us human beings, have an incredible ability to form pair bonds. Unlike our ape cousins the chimps, we humans crave this formation of pair bonds and we have relied on these pair bonds to ensure the survival of our young for as long as humans have existed.

(FYI, Chimps actually have a very different set of mating strategies compared to us humans.)

And yes, men crave this pair bond too! They want that experience. They want to fall in love. They want to deeply commit to the “right” woman, his One & Only woman.

So the real questions for you are, how do you show up in a high value way that makes him want to claim you and hold you tight?

How do you express yourself in a way that inspires his deepest devotion and care?

How do you make him fall in love & feel deeply in his core for YOU?

(By the way, the only way for a man to fall in love with you LONG TERM is for you to become his "One & Only”!)

These are the questions I want to answer for you.

As you learn what it takes to become your chosen man’s one and only, you will also feel more confident within yourself, you'll feel more radiant, more relaxed and more at ease with yourself.

You will literally become stronger physically, mentally, and emotionally because our relationship is where our feminine souls revolve around.

The 5 “Secret Elements” to becoming your chosen man's one & only and have him fall deeply in love with you.

Over the last decade of me helping (literally millions of) women in dating & relationships through my blog The Feminine Woman as well as our paid programs, I’ve realised there are common traits of those women who find themselves as their chosen man’s “One & Only” woman.

I’ve been able to distill everything I’ve learned into 5 very specific and very potent elements that cause men to fall in love with you.

…And I want to teach you these exact 5 elements inside of my “Becoming His One & Only” training. This is literally a 90 minute non-stop content packed masterclass that holds your hand and walks you through everything you need to know to become your chosen man’s “One & Only”.

So here’s a sample of what you’ll learn…

Discover the 5 secrets to having your man fall in love with you and literally beg you to be his one and only. (...And how to show up as a high value woman that no man could refuse or reject.)
Learn the 2 most critical factors in any intimate relationship that will make or break your future. (No, we're not talking about compatibility nor communication, we're talking about 2 factors that are infinitely more important!)
Learn the 3 specific types of value that masculine men look for in their "One and Only" woman. (...& how that is night and day to the "value" he perceives in his one of many.)
Discover how you can show up in a high value way that automatically inspires your chosen man to show up as the best version of himself every single day. (...And thus making you the most cherished, adored and irreplaceable woman in his life!)
Learn how to permanently overcome your deep-set fears of never being good enough by embracing your own feminine values. (...And incidentally inspire the men in your life to love you for who you truly are, not just the image you put out to the world.)
Discover the specific characteristics of the "type" of woman that all esteemed men truly want in a relationship regardless of his preferences or what he says. (...And watch his level of commitment go through the roof as he starts to recognise those traits in you.)
Learn how you can overcome any commitment resistance and conflict by adding this "type" of value first. (...And watch the resistance melt away as he realises he must never let you go.)
...And so much more!

Choose between "Class Only" Version or our most popular Platinum Version.


YES! I want the 5 “secret” to becoming my chosen man's "One & Only" and have him fall deeply in love with me.

Lifetime access for one payment of $99 $79

YES! I want the platinum version of "Becoming His One & Only" and become the woman every man would love to commit to!

Lifetime access for 2 payments of $99

Why you should choose the Platinum version of Becoming His One & Only…

Sometimes just information isn't enough.

Sometimes to get real results and real progress, you need someone to hold your hand and guide you through the process of transformation.

Like the fact that a gym membership may not be enough, sometimes a personal trainer walking you through everything may help you to become more fit or lose weight.

My job here is to help you with men, love and relationships so that you can have an abundance of the love, attention and passion that we all crave!

(That doesn't mean the personal trainer or anyone for that matter is better than you, they are serving YOU to ultimately get you a specific result.)

My job here to help you clear up any emotional blockages or patterns of subconscious sabotage so that you will attract more love, attraction and abundance into your life.

My job is to help you grow and become a high value woman whom every single man would love to commit to, even the high value ones.

And yes, the rumours are true. Our last private coaching clients paid $5,000 USD for just 2 hours of our time. (I’m not one to boast but I want you to know that some women perceive great value in what we teach.)

The platinum version of our “Becoming His One & Only” is no exception.

This Platinum Exclusive Transformational Workshop Will Blow Your Socks Off.

I've condensed literally decades of knowledge, wisdom and insights between myself and my man to come up with 5 incredibly powerful "tailored-for-you" exercises that I want to walk you through in this exclusive workshop.

By the end of this workshop, you will feel the mental, emotional and physical transformation happen right inside of your body. Your entire paradigm will become "upgraded".

You will be completely immersed with profound insights throughout this workshop that will shift the very way you see men, love and relationships for the rest of your life.

This workshop will make you feel strong, capable and joyful yet at the same time help you heal and resolve any lingering issues you may have.

Now I know that's a lot to promise, and the only reason I can make these promises is because I've coached so many women around the world and I've seen so much success in what we teach.

Become the woman every man would love to commit to!

I've also put together 3 amazing bonus videos for you inside the platinum members area.

I've designed these bonus videos to cover some relevant topics for you when it comes to becoming your man's one and only.

Bonus video 1 - I'm going to teach you 4 "Commitment Tests" that you need to start using in order to gauge your man's capacity for true commitment and also to see where he's at emotionally. 

I don't want you to accidentally get yourself into a position where you misjudge how committed he actually is to you and therefore lead you to inevitable pain. I've seen this pattern over and over in women, because there's a big difference between a man showing you signs of interest as opposed to signs of commitment. I don't want you to confuse the two.

In Bonus video 2 I'll address the issue of how to go from a sexual relationship or being friends with benefits, to something a lot more serious and committed.

I'll show you what options you have and what mindset you need to approach it with. It's not an easy process, but it's something that you need to take immediate action upon.

And lastly bonus video 3 has been put together by man David.

He will share with you from his masculine perspective the one trait of men to really beware of when it comes to relationships and commitment.

This one trait of men is something that you as a woman need to keep a lookout for as it may destroy your chances of a happy, loving and committed relationship. 

So as you can imagine, this platinum version is going to be amazing, and I really want you to be a part of it!

Will this course really work for ME?

As long as you implement what I teach you, I’m absolutely confident that this is going to work, regardless of how little faith you have in yourself right now.

(After all, I’ve been teaching this stuff professionally for a decade now! Warning: I’m about to blow my own horn, but I think our teachings on this specific topic is the best in the world, hands down.)

So regardless of how little faith you may have right now, trust in the process. we will never ever lead you astray!

Take a look at all the women making this work for them...

Choose between "Class Only" Version or our most popular Platinum Version.


YES! I want the 5 “secret” to becoming my chosen man's "One & Only" and have him fall deeply in love with me.

Lifetime access for one payment of $99 $79

YES! I want the platinum version of "Becoming His One & Only" and become the woman every man would love to commit to!

Lifetime access for 2 payments of $99

What if I don't like it?

Good question… 

With every program we have ever released, we've always offered a very generous money back guarantee. There have been no exceptions.

The basic deal is, test out our program, and at the end of the program, (or after 30 full days), if you feel for any reason that particular program wasn't for you, then we insist you get all your money back.

Simple.

We do this because we know that not every program is designed for every woman.

Your specific needs are not another woman's needs. So therefore certain programs would be more valuable to you than other ones.

With this “Becoming His One & Only” program, we will be offering the same 30 day full money back guarantee.

But let's sweeten the deal here.

I know it's not always easy to take the leap of faith and invest in a live digital class like this for a lot of people. Some of you may not know what to expect. For some of you this could be totally outside your comfort zone.

I totally understand. (After all, we've all gone through that stage!)

So here's what I want to do for you.

At the end of this program, if you have not been blown away by the class for any reason, we will send you your money back AND I will personally send you a $25 Amazon Gift Card alongside your refund just as a way of saying… "Thanks for taking the leap of faith in attending this program!”

No hard feelings because I know this class isn't for everyone. Some people are ready for the content and the value of this class, some people are not. That's completely OK.

If you are reading this far, then you know deep in your gut that this is something that would benefit you tremendously.

We are always here to support your journey, and at any point, you don’t feel right or you are stuck with something, let us know. We have seen so many hundreds and thousands of women go through similar journeys and we are here to help you every step along the way.

So listen to your gut, we both know how amazing this offer is. Take the offer before it gets lost in the ebb and flow of life.

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Still not sure?

If you’re at all skeptical about this, we understand. You have every right to be.

We’ve seen the garbage that’s being sold out there on the Internet. – Most of it is pure rubbish (to put it lightly.)

We've been in this game for a long time and will be in this game for a lot longer in case you haven't noticed because we are the real deal.

And of course, go and try it out for yourself risk free. You really have nothing to lose.

Right after your order, you will receive an email with all the login details you need to get started.

If you are reading this far, then you know this is something that would benefit you tremendously.

We are always here to support your journey, and at any point, you don’t feel right or you are stuck with something, let us know. We have seen so many hundreds and thousands of women go through similar journeys and we are here to help you every step along the way.

Send us an email through our help desk… (Don’t be shy, we all love to hear from you.)

You have our personal invite to join us in this powerful program but regardless, we truly wish you all the best in love and in life.

P.S. The cost of our Platinum version is actually only $0.54 cents per day if you were to average the cost out over the period of a year.

So the real question here is... is it worth $0.54 per day TO YOU to learn perhaps the most important thing you as a feminine woman need to know in love and relationships?

Just serving as a comparison. The last private client I had paid me $5,000 upfront and we spent a total of under 2 hours on the phone. I don't know about you, but I know a good deal when I see one, and this is a deal you can't miss out on. Let's get started together!

P.P.S. Just like all our programs that we've ever published, you will always be protected by our money back guarantee. If this training doesn't literally blow you away, then I insist you get a full refund immediately - no questions asked.

In fact, we'll do even better. I'll also personally send you a $25 Amazon Gift Card alongside your refund just as a way of saying… "Thanks for taking the leap of faith in attending this program!”

Choose between "Class Only" Version or our most popular Platinum Version.


YES! I want the 5 “secret” to becoming my chosen man's "One & Only" and have him fall deeply in love with me.

Lifetime access for one payment of $99 $79

YES! I want the platinum version of "Becoming His One & Only" and become the woman every man would love to commit to!

Lifetime access for 2 payments of $99

These women trusted the process...

(...and enjoying their successes!)

Our Wall Of Success

Our members love us and we love our members. Here's a collection of video feedback from our customers... (and YES! We would LOVE to feature you here too and be an inspiration to other women.)

"I really trust you guys and the things you're teach about relationships. They are the only things that really make sense." Jackie J

"I love how you guys truly believe what it is you teach. I am very grateful for everything I've learned so far. I look forward to more in the future!" - Laura 

"I appreciate you and David being so selfless, generous and giving in everything that you do! Thank you." - Rachel B.

"I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program. It's really wonderful wonderful work!" - Tina

"I found Renee and David's work a few years back and followed their work because it made so much sense to me. Highly recommend it." - Alena S. 

"Renee! When I got onto your work, the whole world came into focus.Thank you for lifting the lid on a whole set of elusive knowledge for me." - Ivy O.

"I believe watching and reading any of Renee & David's blogs and programs will do nothing but add VALUE to your personal self and your relationships." - Andrea R.

"I cannot wait to take more courses with Renee & David because I cannot explain in words HOW MUCH I've learned, not just about love but about myself." - Akanksha A.

"I've spent loads of time looking into the work of different coaches and Renee's work is the ONLY work that really speaks to me." - Shabana W.

"I found your programs to be very helpful not just with my relationships with other people but also my relationship with myself!" - Jennifer W.

"I have followed you guys and have been a fan for almost a decade now and I find value in everything that you share!" - Blessing 

"I really love David & Renee. I love all their advice. I've learned so much about dating and about men, it's been a fabulous experience." - Sherri.

"...That was amazing, very awesome and very moving for me. It was a very healing experience." - Sharen

"I feel bless that I found Renee & David's work that has shaped and influenced my life throughout the years. Thank you so much!" - Anise

"Thank you Renee and David for making such deep and unique programs that help us to be more of a high value woman." - Melissa A

"I loved every single lesson. Already from the next day I started to notice changes. I started to understand men's desires and fears!" - Nadia 

"I just wanted to say I will be purchasing all of your next courses! Keep up the good work you guys are fantastic!!" - Lucia

"I really appreciate the opportunity to learn from this course and I hope you all learn as much as I did!" - Gina L.

"Thank you for all the information you guys are sharing and helping so many women out there like myself." - Virginia B.

"I've recommended this to so many people already. I recommend it to you because I believe it will work for you too." - Kara 

"Do yourself a favor, sign up. You won't be disappointed because I have no doubt you will get so much out of Renee & David's work." - Kathryn P.

"This has been so helpful in connecting me and reconnecting me to my true self, my higher self. So thank you, I am so grateful." - Stacey R.

"The way Renee & David teaches, it's groundbreaking to be honest." - Anna C.

"My biggest insight was that you can really trust your own feelings. Overall I loved this program and will buy more of them!" - Paula.

"I definitely have been benefiting from this, in terms of self love, compassion & connection within myself as well as towards others." - Winnie L

I am extremely impressed with your programs and I love the way you guys teach!" - Gail.

"I have seen many programs and many coaches out there because I've searched a lot. This is by far the BEST!" - Elena

"Thank you so much for your work and all you give. It helped me so much, your blogs and programs. I'm really happy that coaches like you exist!" - Alison


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