Creating Love In This World One Relationship At A Time

High Value Attachment 

Discover how you can use your innate feminine bias for early attachment to create deeper attraction with men and inspire a deeper commitment from him without you looking needy and low value. (Even if you can’t get over feeling secretly shameful of being needy and low value in the past.)
Learn the 2 specific levels of tests you need to employ as a woman in order to emotionally guide your feelings of attachment to a man. (This is especially true for the second level of tests I call “endearing tests of attachment”, forget to use these & you’ll be sorry.)
Learn how you can dance with the gut level fears that come with your bias for early attachment and use this to inspire men to engage with you with infinite more care, love and compassion. (It’s never about becoming fearless as much as discovering how you can dance with the fears.)

Are You inadvertently Being Low Value to Men?

There are 7 common signs that a woman is perceived as low value to all men. Do you know what they are & how to avoid them like the plague? Download the FREE report and discover these for yourself. Enter your name and email below to get instant access!

Our Selection of Courses

High Value Profile & Banter

The promise of this course is for you to effortlessly find exciting matches, spellbinding conversations and exhilarating real life dates with high value men through a BRAND NEW approach to online dating… (even if you’ve lost all faith and your self esteem has been torn apart by dating apps!)

Understanding Men

The promise of this course is for you discover the secrets of the masculine perspective so that you can get through to any man, connect with him heart to heart, and inspire his deepest loyalty and commitment.

High Value Mindsets

The promise of this program is to give you the ability to “trade in” your anxiety and insecurities for self esteem, self worth and intrinsic confidence, so that no one will ever take you for granted & high value men will recognise you as an indispensable “keeper”.

Becoming His One & Only

The promise of this course is for you to have your chosen man fall in love with you & beg you to be his one & only by embodying these 5 feminine secrets, even if he’s been distant, avoidant, or losing interest…

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Commitment Control 2

The promise of this premium course is for you to experience the freedom and joy of going from “not knowing where your relationship is going”, to a deeply committed life long relationship without any resistance, withdrawal or heartache…

Attraction Pebbles

The promise of this course is for you to learn and master the dark feminine art of “Attraction Pebbles” to effortlessly capture & keep high quality men’s attention, cultivate deep emotional attraction & make them chase you!

Why You'll Love Our Programs...

Our Secure Library Portal

Our state of the art library portal is the hub of all our programs here at Shen Wade Media. We designed it so that you can access all our best programs in the one single location.

Any Device Anywhere

Whether you're using a smart phone, a tablet or a 27 inch iMac, our programs will work smoothly and look gorgeous on your device. You'll love the experience of going through our programs.

World Class Support

Need help with ordering or getting access? Something not working? Whatever your question or your concern, our world class customer support team is here to take care of you!

Effortless Transformation

All our programs are always designed with you and your journey in mind. Every video, every session and every exercise was created to give you effortless results and transformation.

Life Time Access

Once you invest in our programs, you will always have life time access whenever you need them. On top of that, you will get all the members only upgrades & updates.

Giving Back

A percentage of every dollar we generate goes back to those most in need. We donate to charities that support and help women around the world.

D. Shen

Founder of Commitment Triggers, Author, World Class Coach & Thought Leader on Attraction, Love & Intimate Relationships.

D. Shen is also the founder of CommitmentTriggers.com where he teaches women how to show up as high value high status, how to inspire a deep sense of emotional commitment from any man and create that healthy, passionate relationship we all crave. 

For the past decade, he took it upon himself to research and figure out the science as well as the art of long term commitment, falling in love, and staying in love. 

D. Shen deeply believes that we all deserve love in this lifetime. He believes that every single one of us has the capacity and the power to create that deep soulmate relationship that we all crave. 

Ultimately he believes that if we can create more relationships that are built upon attraction, passion and love, rather than fear, insecurities and guilt, then the world will become a better and safer place. With stronger relationships come stronger individuals, stronger families and stronger societies and therefore a better future for our next generation. 

Renee Wade

Author at The Feminine Woman, Thought Leader on Femininity, Sexual Polarity and Intimate Relationships.

When Renee first founded The Feminine Woman back in 2009, she had only one mission - to help women have a deeper understanding of men, dating & relationships. She realised that by understanding and appreciating certain aspects of men and their masculine energy, it made communicating to men, creating attraction and deep connection with men exponentially easier & smoother.

The biggest inspirations behind her desire to teach the feminine masculine difference was through her own struggles in her personal relationship and the relationship of her closest friends.

After completing law school, Renee made the leap of faith to pursue her passion in teaching relationship and spiritual skills and mindsets and she has not looked back. Her blog The Feminine Woman has attracted over a million visitors and continue to inspire women from around the world.

Renee has authored a large portion of the programs here at Shen Wade Media and will continue to create the latest and most cutting edge content. 

What We Believe...

We believe that every single one of us deserve love. We deserve to experience the feelings of warmth, connectedness and passion.

We deserve to be loved exactly how we are right now, without having to become someone else in the process, and regardless of how we look, how many friends we have, or how successful we think we are.

But unfortunately in this day and age, there aren’t many places where you can learn the skills of attracting the right partner for us and sustain a healthy relationship.

We don’t get taught these skills in our school system or any other academic environment.

But we believe our intimate relationship is one of the most important areas for us to focus on because it impacts us the most. Think about it, nothing else can make us feel as euphoric or as depressing as our intimate relationship.

And with that kind of power over our lives, I believe we all need to put more of our focus in this one area.

So we made it our mission here at Shen Wade Media to educate and empower men and women when it comes to dating, attraction, love and long term relationships. We believe by offering a world class education, we can really change lives, create more love in this world and move humanity forward.

We believe in delivering the most cutting edge advice and coaching in dating, relationships and spirituality. You see, there’s a science and an art to love and attraction, and we strive to always bring to you the latest and best transformational strategies.

It’s all about helping you become the next version the more educated and evolved version of you.

It's all about helping you experience the love and passion that you deserve to feel.

Our Wall Of Success

Our members love us and we love our members. Here's a collection of video feedback from our customers... (and YES! We would LOVE to feature you here too and be an inspiration to other women.)

"I really trust you guys and the things you're teach about relationships. They are the only things that really make sense." Jackie J

"I love how you guys truly believe what it is you teach. I am very grateful for everything I've learned so far. I look forward to more in the future!" - Laura 

"I appreciate you and David being so selfless, generous and giving in everything that you do! Thank you." - Rachel B.

"I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program. It's really wonderful wonderful work!" - Tina

"I found Renee and David's work a few years back and followed their work because it made so much sense to me. Highly recommend it." - Alena S. 

"Renee! When I got onto your work, the whole world came into focus.Thank you for lifting the lid on a whole set of elusive knowledge for me." - Ivy O.

"I believe watching and reading any of Renee & David's blogs and programs will do nothing but add VALUE to your personal self and your relationships." - Andrea R.

"I cannot wait to take more courses with Renee & David because I cannot explain in words HOW MUCH I've learned, not just about love but about myself." - Akanksha A.

"I've spent loads of time looking into the work of different coaches and Renee's work is the ONLY work that really speaks to me." - Shabana W.

"I found your programs to be very helpful not just with my relationships with other people but also my relationship with myself!" - Jennifer W.

"I have followed you guys and have been a fan for almost a decade now and I find value in everything that you share!" - Blessing 

"I really love David & Renee. I love all their advice. I've learned so much about dating and about men, it's been a fabulous experience." - Sherri.

"...That was amazing, very awesome and very moving for me. It was a very healing experience." - Sharen

"I feel bless that I found Renee & David's work that has shaped and influenced my life throughout the years. Thank you so much!" - Anise

"Thank you Renee and David for making such deep and unique programs that help us to be more of a high value woman." - Melissa A

"I loved every single lesson. Already from the next day I started to notice changes. I started to understand men's desires and fears!" - Nadia 

"I just wanted to say I will be purchasing all of your next courses! Keep up the good work you guys are fantastic!!" - Lucia

"I really appreciate the opportunity to learn from this course and I hope you all learn as much as I did!" - Gina L.

"Thank you for all the information you guys are sharing and helping so many women out there like myself." - Virginia B.

"I've recommended this to so many people already. I recommend it to you because I believe it will work for you too." - Kara 

"Do yourself a favor, sign up. You won't be disappointed because I have no doubt you will get so much out of Renee & David's work." - Kathryn P.

"This has been so helpful in connecting me and reconnecting me to my true self, my higher self. So thank you, I am so grateful." - Stacey R.

"The way Renee & David teaches, it's groundbreaking to be honest." - Anna C.

"My biggest insight was that you can really trust your own feelings. Overall I loved this program and will buy more of them!" - Paula.

"I definitely have been benefiting from this, in terms of self love, compassion & connection within myself as well as towards others." - Winnie L

I am extremely impressed with your programs and I love the way you guys teach!" - Gail.

"I have seen many programs and many coaches out there because I've searched a lot. This is by far the BEST!" - Elena

"Thank you so much for your work and all you give. It helped me so much, your blogs and programs. I'm really happy that coaches like you exist!" - Alison


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We believe that every single one of us deserve love. We deserve to experience the feelings of warmth, connectedness and passion. It is our mission to give you the strength, the skills and the wisdom to achieve that for yourself, even if you have just hit rock bottom and lost all faith.

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